"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

what do highschoolers do for dates

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

donpepot

Don Juan
Joined
May 16, 2006
Messages
101
Reaction score
3
there are 3 kinds they do when they date..

1. The guy is making or thinking a way to get to her pants.(ex.wining her heart, trying to impress her making her feel loved and cherished)

2.After they laugh and have diner or wat not they will have foreplay.

3.After chit or watver they will have sex before walking the girl to her home.
 

Apathy

New Member
Joined
Dec 19, 2006
Messages
6
Reaction score
1
I don't think highschoolers go on dates very much. I guess they could be considered "dates" but it's more like a casual hang out type thing. I consider basically any quality time you spend together a date. I myself have never been on a real "date" like dinner and movie type thing. I've gone to shows, met up with chicks at the movies, miniture golf, go bowling, went swimming etc.. basically anything you would do with your friends you could probably do for a date. Try and keep them active though.. movie dates are kind of lame.
 

Skilla_Staz

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
2,214
Reaction score
10
Age
37
Location
Omaha, Nebraska
Dinners = awkward.


Just hang out. Take her to a movie if you're feeling "lame". Otherwise go somewhere fun. Start talking about some place, and if she seems interested, be like "yeah, here, write your number down, i'll call ya, and we'll go this weekend"
 

PleasureKing

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 14, 2006
Messages
175
Reaction score
1
small meetings:
ice cream, coffee, small eating area.

normal meetings:
movies, mall

ideal meetings:
park, her house, pool/jacuzzi (her place or yours, assuming 1 of you have 1), walk on the main streets (that have stores, restuarants, coffee shops, etc, etc. basically a location with many attractions), theme parks, ice skating, etc.

off topic:
are you a teen? or are you a parent trying to get different perspectives from others so you can make a decision on whether or not your child should go on a date with a special someone? (the way you asked the question, it sounds like its your first time, and you really have no idea what high schoolers do for dates. i dont mean to be rude or anything, im just saying what i noticed)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

kickureface

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 23, 2006
Messages
713
Reaction score
1
im a teen
i do the same trhings you guys do but was just wondering what you guys were doing. :)
 

donpepot

Don Juan
Joined
May 16, 2006
Messages
101
Reaction score
3
making steps as stealth as possible to going on the "get into her pants level".

levels or stages..

1.Win her comfort
2.Built connection
3.Visualize excitement
4.Sexual tension
5.Arrousal
6.Make her emotioanlly safe.
 
Top