"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what do highschoolers do for dates

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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donpepot

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there are 3 kinds they do when they date..

1. The guy is making or thinking a way to get to her pants.(ex.wining her heart, trying to impress her making her feel loved and cherished)

2.After they laugh and have diner or wat not they will have foreplay.

3.After chit or watver they will have sex before walking the girl to her home.
 

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I don't think highschoolers go on dates very much. I guess they could be considered "dates" but it's more like a casual hang out type thing. I consider basically any quality time you spend together a date. I myself have never been on a real "date" like dinner and movie type thing. I've gone to shows, met up with chicks at the movies, miniture golf, go bowling, went swimming etc.. basically anything you would do with your friends you could probably do for a date. Try and keep them active though.. movie dates are kind of lame.
 

Skilla_Staz

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Dinners = awkward.


Just hang out. Take her to a movie if you're feeling "lame". Otherwise go somewhere fun. Start talking about some place, and if she seems interested, be like "yeah, here, write your number down, i'll call ya, and we'll go this weekend"
 

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small meetings:
ice cream, coffee, small eating area.

normal meetings:
movies, mall

ideal meetings:
park, her house, pool/jacuzzi (her place or yours, assuming 1 of you have 1), walk on the main streets (that have stores, restuarants, coffee shops, etc, etc. basically a location with many attractions), theme parks, ice skating, etc.

off topic:
are you a teen? or are you a parent trying to get different perspectives from others so you can make a decision on whether or not your child should go on a date with a special someone? (the way you asked the question, it sounds like its your first time, and you really have no idea what high schoolers do for dates. i dont mean to be rude or anything, im just saying what i noticed)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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kickureface

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im a teen
i do the same trhings you guys do but was just wondering what you guys were doing. :)
 

donpepot

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making steps as stealth as possible to going on the "get into her pants level".

levels or stages..

1.Win her comfort
2.Built connection
3.Visualize excitement
4.Sexual tension
5.Arrousal
6.Make her emotioanlly safe.
 
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