kickureface
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or do you just "hang out"
or do you just "hang out"
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
what do highschoolers do for dates
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
there are 3 kinds they do when they date..
1. The guy is making or thinking a way to get to her pants.(ex.wining her heart, trying to impress her making her feel loved and cherished)
2.After they laugh and have diner or wat not they will have foreplay.
3.After chit or watver they will have sex before walking the girl to her home.
1. The guy is making or thinking a way to get to her pants.(ex.wining her heart, trying to impress her making her feel loved and cherished)
2.After they laugh and have diner or wat not they will have foreplay.
3.After chit or watver they will have sex before walking the girl to her home.
I don't think highschoolers go on dates very much. I guess they could be considered "dates" but it's more like a casual hang out type thing. I consider basically any quality time you spend together a date. I myself have never been on a real "date" like dinner and movie type thing. I've gone to shows, met up with chicks at the movies, miniture golf, go bowling, went swimming etc.. basically anything you would do with your friends you could probably do for a date. Try and keep them active though.. movie dates are kind of lame.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Dinners = awkward.
Just hang out. Take her to a movie if you're feeling "lame". Otherwise go somewhere fun. Start talking about some place, and if she seems interested, be like "yeah, here, write your number down, i'll call ya, and we'll go this weekend"
Just hang out. Take her to a movie if you're feeling "lame". Otherwise go somewhere fun. Start talking about some place, and if she seems interested, be like "yeah, here, write your number down, i'll call ya, and we'll go this weekend"
PleasureKing
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small meetings:
ice cream, coffee, small eating area.
normal meetings:
movies, mall
ideal meetings:
park, her house, pool/jacuzzi (her place or yours, assuming 1 of you have 1), walk on the main streets (that have stores, restuarants, coffee shops, etc, etc. basically a location with many attractions), theme parks, ice skating, etc.
off topic:
are you a teen? or are you a parent trying to get different perspectives from others so you can make a decision on whether or not your child should go on a date with a special someone? (the way you asked the question, it sounds like its your first time, and you really have no idea what high schoolers do for dates. i dont mean to be rude or anything, im just saying what i noticed)
ice cream, coffee, small eating area.
normal meetings:
movies, mall
ideal meetings:
park, her house, pool/jacuzzi (her place or yours, assuming 1 of you have 1), walk on the main streets (that have stores, restuarants, coffee shops, etc, etc. basically a location with many attractions), theme parks, ice skating, etc.
off topic:
are you a teen? or are you a parent trying to get different perspectives from others so you can make a decision on whether or not your child should go on a date with a special someone? (the way you asked the question, it sounds like its your first time, and you really have no idea what high schoolers do for dates. i dont mean to be rude or anything, im just saying what i noticed)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
kickureface
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im a teen
i do the same trhings you guys do but was just wondering what you guys were doing.
i do the same trhings you guys do but was just wondering what you guys were doing.