What do females actually need from me?

[RichardTheFrog]

Or anyone.

What could I have to give them?

I live in the USA where most people have decent enough money. We evolved for women to need men to provide for and protect them. But they can provide for themselves now. The police protect them. They get their food from the grocery store, they can buy or rent a house that's already been built by a stranger, they can just pay an auto mechanic without knowing him personally.

So what do they need?

I want sex from them. So what could I give in return?

 

[PokerStar]

emotions.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

emotions.

That's like when you punch them in the nose and they get angry?

What kind of emotions? This seems like a scam. Are they also taking my money while this is happening and hoping I don't notice?

 

[sosousage]

Well you could give them handsome boyfriend

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Well you could give them handsome boyfriend

But doesn't he have to be worth something? Like smart, decent money, good in bed, etc.?

 

[machoMax]

Or anyone.

What could I have to give them?

I live in the USA where most people have decent enough money. We evolved for women to need men to provide for and protect them. But they can provide for themselves now. The police protect them. They get their food from the grocery store, they can buy or rent a house that's already been built by a stranger, they can just pay an auto mechanic without knowing him personally.

So what do they need?

I want sex from them. So what could I give in return?

Well, they need some physical and emotional need, like sex and belonging to somebody to spend some nice time, that is what you could give to them...

 

[Macaframalama]

Emotional gratification, sexual gratification, financial gratification. Either a combination or all of the above to varying degrees.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Emotional gratification, sexual gratification, financial gratification. Either a combination or all of the above to varying degrees.

What is emotional gratification?

Also, even if I could give all 3, seems they wouldn't want it from me.

 

[Macaframalama]

What is emotional gratification?

Also, even if I could give all 3, seems they wouldn't want it from me.

Well, happiness, through companionship is the first one that comes to mind. Fulfilling the need to be wanted, desired, protected, etc. Mentally/emotionally stimulated through talk and touch. Your hindrance is the inability to be/appear empathetic to the needs, wants and desires of others. And you can have all three and yes, they would want you.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blo...ng-the-rubes/201610/briffaults-law-women-rule

 

[marmel75]

With your attitude and outlook on life? Not a Damn thing.

 

[xxx111]

We evolved for women to need men to provide for and protect them. But they can provide for themselves now. The police protect them. They get their food from the grocery store, they can buy or rent a house that's already been built by a stranger, they can just pay an auto mechanic without knowing him personally.

Their brains haven't evolved in the last 50 years. Do you know why you prefer women with wide hips and small stomach? Because you know she's not pregnant. Do you know why you prefer women with blonde hair? Because you know she's not old. Do you know why you prefer women with lighter colored eyes? Because you can observe her pupil dilation. Do you know why you prefer women with longer legs and a shorter body? Because they can run from danger. I can go on, but the point is, nowadays none of this is relevant. You can ask her age, ask if she's pregnant, and she doesn't need to run from danger (according to you), yet you still base your attraction on these things. This is truly a pointless subject. What woman only sees men as an ATM? Most won't. Sure, there are some... any woman with Hugh Hefner for example. But not most.

 

[xxx111]

Women prefer men with a strong jawline. it's a sign of high testosterone. It's a sign he could wipe out any danger and protect her. Now, a computer programmer nerd with a weak jawline and chin may offer more "stability" these days, but most women aren't going to be impressed by him. The human brain is still wired to go after what it has been for hundreds or thousands of years now. Type in "attractive man" and I can tell you what he WILL NOT look like. Some weak jawed round faced guy. That guy has a harder love live than others. Even this day and age when men aren't routinely killing animals to live. Just the way it is.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Women prefer men with a strong jawline. it's a sign of high testosterone. It's a sign he could wipe out any danger and protect her. Now, a computer programmer nerd with a weak jawline and chin may offer more "stability" these days, but most women aren't going to be impressed by him. The human brain is still wired to go after what it has been for hundreds or thousands of years now. Type in "attractive man" and I can tell you what he WILL NOT look like. Some weak jawed round faced guy. That guy has a harder love live than others. Even this day and age when men aren't routinely killing animals to live. Just the way it is.

So you're saying there is no hope for me because I'm not good looking enough? And I should just accept the fact that "women" or whatever the fvck they call themselves are going to treat me like sh1t my whole life?

 

[skinnyguy]

So you're saying there is no hope for me because I'm not good looking enough? And I should just accept the fact that "women" or whatever the fvck they call themselves are going to treat me like sh1t my whole life?

Since you hate women, why does it matter?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Since you hate women, why does it matter?

Maybe I hate them because of how they treat me.

Either way, you didn't answer the question. What should I do? Get sh1t injected in my face or fly to Turkey to get my shins broken?

 

[xxx111]

Between reading this and the other thread you need to work on your social skills. Not worry about injecting crap in your face or breaking your shins. Go to some dive bar, have a few beers, strike up a conversation, doesn't have to be a girl. Shouldn't take ANY beers to talk to someone. That is all I have to say about this.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Between reading this and the other thread you need to work on your social skills. Not worry about injecting crap in your face or breaking your shins. Go to some dive bar, have a few beers, strike up a conversation, doesn't have to be a girl. Shouldn't take ANY beers to talk to someone. That is all I have to say about this.

I've done that a million times. It's about what,comes after.

 

[Macaframalama]

That is all I have to say about this.

Well then. And here I thought this guy was never going to STFU.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Well then. And here I thought this guy was never going to STFU.

Damn you're tough.