"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What DJ-like qualities have you always had?

Desdinova

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Instead of focusing on the negative, let's focus on the positive. Many of us have improved ourselves, but what are the areas that didn't need much improving? What seemed to come natural to you regarding your behavior with women even when you were AFC?

For me:
- Cutting all contact when I got dumped
- Kino (after I hung around women who hugged their friends)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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for me it was being funny
 

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