"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What did you want to be when you were growing up? and What are you doing now?

the_govner

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And by What did you want to be when you were growing up, I don't mean something like I wanted to be michael jordan and did nothing about it.

I mean something that you really worked toward for a period of time and actually had a tangible time frame and what not.

For example, I wanted to be a professional tennis player and trained insanely for a couple years, i made it to the junior national level but nothing more.

I'm now an importer and distributor of consumer goods.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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There are three things I've always wanted to do for as long as I can remember.
I wanted to be Rambo, an engineer, and build a million dollar business.


I'm a former Marine, currently an engineer, and working on the million dollar business.
 

synergy1

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I wanted to build roller coasters so I went to college to study engineering. I am still in engineering, but using my powers for making new energy systems and not fun rides.
 

Warrior74

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I wanted to make comic books, movies and tv shows. All through grade school I got in trouble for drawing and writing in class. In high school I caught the tv bug and begin working at tv stations doing camera and audio. My parents couldn't afford film school so I went to school for communications, dropped out to start my own video production company.

I'm a graphic artist,editor, marketer in local tv and video production.
 

PokerStar

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always wanted to be a lawyer or hockey player but my grade % and athletic ability(lack there of) kept me out.

I had a knack for oragnizing people, so I eventually became a party promoter at night, and I work in sales during the day.

Didnt think I would end up in this position but I'm happy with what I got and Im aware there is still more mountians out here to conquer.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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