"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What did you want to be when you were growing up? and What are you doing now?

the_govner

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And by What did you want to be when you were growing up, I don't mean something like I wanted to be michael jordan and did nothing about it.

I mean something that you really worked toward for a period of time and actually had a tangible time frame and what not.

For example, I wanted to be a professional tennis player and trained insanely for a couple years, i made it to the junior national level but nothing more.

I'm now an importer and distributor of consumer goods.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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There are three things I've always wanted to do for as long as I can remember.
I wanted to be Rambo, an engineer, and build a million dollar business.


I'm a former Marine, currently an engineer, and working on the million dollar business.
 

synergy1

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I wanted to build roller coasters so I went to college to study engineering. I am still in engineering, but using my powers for making new energy systems and not fun rides.
 

Warrior74

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I wanted to make comic books, movies and tv shows. All through grade school I got in trouble for drawing and writing in class. In high school I caught the tv bug and begin working at tv stations doing camera and audio. My parents couldn't afford film school so I went to school for communications, dropped out to start my own video production company.

I'm a graphic artist,editor, marketer in local tv and video production.
 

PokerStar

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always wanted to be a lawyer or hockey player but my grade % and athletic ability(lack there of) kept me out.

I had a knack for oragnizing people, so I eventually became a party promoter at night, and I work in sales during the day.

Didnt think I would end up in this position but I'm happy with what I got and Im aware there is still more mountians out here to conquer.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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