"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What did you want to be when you were growing up? and What are you doing now?

the_govner

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And by What did you want to be when you were growing up, I don't mean something like I wanted to be michael jordan and did nothing about it.

I mean something that you really worked toward for a period of time and actually had a tangible time frame and what not.

For example, I wanted to be a professional tennis player and trained insanely for a couple years, i made it to the junior national level but nothing more.

I'm now an importer and distributor of consumer goods.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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There are three things I've always wanted to do for as long as I can remember.
I wanted to be Rambo, an engineer, and build a million dollar business.


I'm a former Marine, currently an engineer, and working on the million dollar business.
 

synergy1

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I wanted to build roller coasters so I went to college to study engineering. I am still in engineering, but using my powers for making new energy systems and not fun rides.
 

Warrior74

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I wanted to make comic books, movies and tv shows. All through grade school I got in trouble for drawing and writing in class. In high school I caught the tv bug and begin working at tv stations doing camera and audio. My parents couldn't afford film school so I went to school for communications, dropped out to start my own video production company.

I'm a graphic artist,editor, marketer in local tv and video production.
 

PokerStar

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always wanted to be a lawyer or hockey player but my grade % and athletic ability(lack there of) kept me out.

I had a knack for oragnizing people, so I eventually became a party promoter at night, and I work in sales during the day.

Didnt think I would end up in this position but I'm happy with what I got and Im aware there is still more mountians out here to conquer.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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