What? Did I just get LJBF? Yeah, Okay

[HeyPachuco!]

I'm having trouble figuring out whats acually "Lets Just Be Friends" and "We're friends"

I was in a club with this girl, talking it up for about 2 hours (I should've opened other girls I know, but she interested me so much I totally broke the rules like a Lost lad) Later during the night, I took my drink to her mouth and asked her "to try some" she hesitated and then said "Were just friends" with a smile on her face. Me, partially tipsy, didn't take notice of whats he said at the time.

Maybe she was shy, nervous or thought I was making a move, yet she kisses me at the end of the night. I didnt ask for her number and gave her my card (Company card - which has my Facebook URL) on it. Why I didn't ask for the number for over 2 hours? I don't know, I didn't care at the time.

She sent this to my inbox after an exchange of Facebook messages.

" well hi there Mr Heypachuco, listen I gta get of this now but youve interested me so much that it would be my pleasure to give u my no even though the likely hood of us ever bein any more then friends it would be a cryin shame to loose touch 078*"

Does Were just friends translate to "I'm shy and nervous, I want to take it slow, so I'll label you this to catch you off guard? "

Did Heypachuco just get LJBF? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V4w62pojCJQ

 

[brekke]

I am not a dj, but I would say to ignore this girl. I can not stand people that can not spell anything correctly. :nono: She seems like a real idiot from that message.

I would send her something like "I don't want to be your friend", or "I have enough friends".

Honestly, what kind of guy can stand being friends with a girl? They are so annoying.

 

[JLW]

That seems strange. You kissed her and all this other crap but she still thinks you're just "friends"? Maybe her idea of a friend is skewed. I say try it out.

I would agree with brekke that her spelling is incorrigible and it makes her seem very unintelligent and stupid. But if she was actually smart in person then I'm sure it's fine.

 

[Funlol]

she is just saying that. Don't listen

you can clearly f close this girl. Her interest is high..

 

[vatoloco]

Sounds like a basket case to me. Try to fclose her if you're looking into a quick lay but do not invest too much time or effort in her.

 

[Kal0051]

Weird. Either she's just weird or there's something more you don't know. Maybe she has a serious boyfriend who she's planning on marrying but wants to keep you around for some reason. Maybe it's something else...

 

[L B]

hmmm...body says one thing and the mouth says another. Which one do you trust? If she's worth the trouble, go for it. She might be shy or inexperienced. You won't know unless you try. Take her on a date as "friends," yeah that's it...and see.

 

[UniKKatiL]

Reply: Ok, then ''friend''.. you wanna play hard to get, i will play along

Ignore the ''lets just be friends'' part.. Girls say and do stuff that they don't mean, sometimes when a girl says something she means the opposite of it, so a ''lets just be friends'' can mean ''take me hard''.. Most girls don't even know what they want, they send mixed signals all the time etc. until you've seduced them. I say keep going for her as long as you're around her. Be the man in charge, dude.. Don't let her friend-zone you. If you've watched the movie Scarface, Toni Montana keeps going for the blond chick even though she turns him down several times, It's just a movie but that's how you should do it. My best friends current girlfriend told him in the start ''I wanna take things slowly'' a week later he ****ed her, she is now hopelessly in love with him as I've seen.

 

[OMGWTFLMAO]

She wants you to pursue her and she's giving you just enough encouragement to keep you interested. That translates to her being interested in someone else that she is holding out for, but she also wants to keep you hanging nearby to fall back on in case what she is pursuing doesn't work out. Basically, she's got you lined up behind some other guy.

 

[vatoloco]

She wants you to pursue her and she's giving you just enough encouragement to keep you interested. That translates to her being interested in someone else that she is holding out for, but she also wants to keep you hanging nearby to fall back on in case what she is pursuing doesn't work out. Basically, she's got you lined up behind some other guy.

It's a possibility. That's why he should try to f-close her (if he's interested in that) and make her show her hand asap. That way he doesn't waste his time if she's just stringing him along.