What did i do wrong

[seanc]

I recently met this girl on AOL sunday, and we end up talking that night and i told her i was coming through to chill with her on monday and she was like cool. So I went over there and she let me in and i ended up going to her room to chill. Anyway I lay down and she lays above me and i start feeling on her legs and ish and everything is cool. Then she's like lets go somewhere so we leave and go a few places and then we came back to her house and i start feelin on her again and i kiss her neck and **** but i had to cut all that short cause i had to pick someone up so i end up telling her that i was coming back to chill with her tomorrow which is today. So i call her this morning and she was sleep so i told her i would call her back and did at around 3 but she didnt answer the phone and i ended up gettin on AOL and she was on to so i holler at her and i ask her if i can comethrough tomorrow and she's like her homeboys want her to comeover tonight and i was like i guess, basically im gettin the feelin she aint feelin me no more.

SO MY QUESTION TO U GUYS IS WHERE DID I MESS UP AT?

 

[Craig Reeves]

Well it doesn't seem like she really gave you any reason to believe this. Guys need to remember that when a girl is really not interested, the signals that she sends are extrodinarily clear.

When you're pursuing a girl, things never....and I mean never....go perfectly. Just take the rest of the week off from her and give her a few days to miss you if you're starting to feel like she's starting to get tired of you.

 

[Craig Reeves]

Well it doesn't seem like she really gave you any reason to believe this. Guys need to remember that when a girl is really not interested, the signals that she sends are extrodinarily clear.

When you're pursuing a girl, things never....and I mean never....go perfectly. Just take the rest of the week off from her and give her a few days to miss you if you're starting to feel like she's starting to get tired of you.

 

[seanc]

Thanks, I think ur right, so i should just wait until next week to call her again or the end of this week cause she told she loves attention

 

[splinterkb]

You're jumping too far ahead of yourself. Wait a few days before you try to contact her again. You're coming off as AFC in trying to get with her every day.

 

[Craig Reeves]

Well I mean if your just feeling as if she's kind of losing interest in you, yes try giving a few days to her where she can actually miss you. Time away can do wonders for a woman's IL.

 

[downfallofdisbelief]

I'd say FUKKIT and move on dude. Go get more experience with other chicks. Unless eh's the godddamn mona lisa, dont bother.

 

[Jerky Boi]

You called too much. You can't come off that strong when you're trying to start talking to a girl. She didn't see you as a challenge and just let you go. Basically, by her telling you that another guy was coming over, she was telling you that she's not all that interested right now. Just wait about a week, and see if she calls. I wouldn't try and call her again though. There's nothing much else you can do.

 

[seanc]

Oh yea i left out one thing she had a boyfriend but she said they were about to break up.I just got through talking to her and she was like i thought u knew we were just friends from jump and all this other ish. So yall were right i should of just left it alone.