"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What da fvck..Old 50 yr old haggardly-lookin ***** just sent me an email professing

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Crack in the mirror. Classy eh? Wish I was humblebragging, fact is I've struggled with a skin condition since my late teens. When its not acting up, I'd give myself a 6 or low 7. When its bad, its super oily and looks like I havent showered even after I do. Something I've come to terms with, its life. The things I can control, I try to improve...like body and dressing, which I need to improve upon a lot more. It's a struggle, but a fun one. Thanks Scaramouche for.the kind words, I respect your opinion.
 

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disgustipated said:
Crack in the mirror. Classy eh? Wish I was humblebragging, fact is I've struggled with a skin condition since my late teens. When its not acting up, I'd give myself a 6 or low 7. When its bad, its super oily and looks like I havent showered even after I do. Something I've come to terms with, its life. The things I can control, I try to improve...like body and dressing, which I need to improve upon a lot more. It's a struggle, but a fun one. Thanks Scaramouche for.the kind words, I respect your opinion.
Dude, google 'tea tree oil' -- go pick some of this up. Dab a small amount on a kleenex or toilet paper or a cotton ball, whatever, and use this on the oil...I swear to you this tea tree stuff is magic in terms of clearing up the skin (acne) but also can dry out the skin.....just something to consider! This stuff I *swear by* these days after years of acne medications and all that stuff (I know your issue here is oil production, but there is a relationship).

Just had to share this information with you.
 

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Yesterday afternoon, doorbell rings (I'm on the phone), and it's the postman, delivering me a postcard/letter with delivery confirmation (I have to Sign this thing 2x), I can see the postage cost $6. Open it up, and lo in fvckin be-hoe, it's from this old hag in the op, She's "bearing her soul" to me, how she would take care of me for the rest of my life, that she had been waiting on me for months to return to where I'd first met her, but now no longer is hanging out there but this new place. She encloses her number, her address with apt #, that if I don't respond to this message, then she'll know that I'm not interested. But she said that in the email she'd sent me in the op as well months ago. This one is really kinda spooking me a little. I mean, I didn't even know she'd had my address to send me this postcard (picture of a dark mythical (haunted-like) forest with light coming through trees). I'm beginning to think that she's watching my house, watching me come and go. Should I call the cops?
 

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Poonani Maker said:
Yesterday afternoon, doorbell rings (I'm on the phone), and it's the postman, delivering me a postcard/letter with delivery confirmation (I have to Sign this thing 2x), I can see the postage cost $6. Open it up, and lo in fvckin be-hoe, it's from this old hag in the op, She's "bearing her soul" to me, how she would take care of me for the rest of my life, that she had been waiting on me for months to return to where I'd first met her, but now no longer is hanging out there but this new place. She encloses her number, her address with apt #, that if I don't respond to this message, then she'll know that I'm not interested. But she said that in the email she'd sent me in the op as well months ago. This one is really kinda spooking me a little. I mean, I didn't even know she'd had my address to send me this postcard (picture of a dark mythical (haunted-like) forest with light coming through trees). I'm beginning to think that she's watching my house, watching me come and go. Should I call the cops?
That would freak me the fu*k out.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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