What could this mean?

[illmatic1005]

Today i was with my girlfriend going home on the train. And she said "i have to tell u sumtin"

"my friend came up to me and said, Can i get a hug''..''i hugged him and afterwards i felt bad''..''i only want you to hug me''

why would she feel bad after a hug. Could this mean she liked the kid and felt something for him during the hug? Was she guilty of something?

Why would she feel bad?

or could it just be an innocent feeling?

 

[Damian]

You've taken it a bit out of context, but I'll shoot a few hypotheticals out there:

1. She genuinely feels guilty about hugging another guy. She doesn't think it's okay and just wants your forgiveness.
2. It's bothering her and she just needs a hug and some reassurance
3. She's just looking for a hug.
4. She's testing you to see how you react to this kind of thing. Seeing if you would find it okay to hug OTHER GIRLS (gasp!).
4a. You've hugged other girls and this is her way of telling you she's not okay with it.
5. SUPER PARANOID WORST CASE SCENARIO: She cheated on you and doesn't know how to come out with it. I seriously doubt it though...just doesn't add up to me.

In any case, give her a hug and make her feel better. Ask if the guy she hugged was hot. Let her know that stuff she communicates to you in such a deliberate way actually makes a difference to you.

 

[DonGorgon]

LOL... she heard her inner ho cry out for some new **** when he hugged her and she knows that is what she wants and she feels bad that she is about to cheat on you and or leave you...

 

[illmatic1005]

really?

 

[tick37]

No, he's probably just messing with you, and you're showing your insecurity. Don't let what she said phase you. If it bothers you, she'll probably see it and know that she can control and manipulate your emotions. Just shrug it off and only worry about the big things.

If she does mess around on you, all you got to do is dump her. Don't try to be the man she wants you to be. Be the man you want to be, and if she doesn't like it, well whoopty freakin' do. You should want a girl who likes you for you, and not a girl who likes that you've change for her.

Don't sweat the small stuff!

 

[Alphamale1821]

LMAO bro you have some deep insecurity issues if your OVERanalyzing a freaking hug. Come on now dude it's a HUG

 

[DonGorgon]

LMAO bro you have some deep insecurity issues if your OVERanalyzing a freaking hug. Come on now dude it's a HUG

Most good fUçKs start with a good hug (and some inner guilt)....

 

[illmatic1005]

LMAO bro you have some deep insecurity issues if your OVERanalyzing a freaking hug. Come on now dude it's a HUG

i wasnt overanalyxing a hug. I thought she still hugged other dudes.

i was just wondering why she teold me she felt bad after she hugged him..she said some guy saw awww and that she only wanted to be held in my arms

if it was a normal hugh i wouldnt care, but te fact that she felt guilty and sad mad me worry

 

[splinterkb]

She felt guilty about hugging someone? Are you f*cking kidding me? One guess I have is that "hugging" was code for something else that she did, but doesn't wanna tell you... just a thought.

 

[DonGorgon]

i wasnt overanalyxing a hug. I thought she still hugged other dudes.

i was just wondering why she teold me she felt bad after she hugged him..she said some guy saw awww and that she only wanted to be held in my arms

if it was a normal hugh i wouldnt care, but te fact that she felt guilty and sad mad me worry

I told you the truth dude.. take it or leave it but she is giving you a loud clear warning sign that trouble is coming in your relationship..

 

[illmatic1005]

I told you the truth dude.. take it or leave it but she is giving you a loud clear warning sign that trouble is coming in your relationship..

whyyyyyyy

 

[DonGorgon]

whyyyyyyy

Why? cause she is a young pretty female human being offered D!CK every day by men who she like and men she doe not like... after a certain amount of time she will be inclined to f one of these dudes its just the natural order of things... Nothing you do can stop this you can delay it of make her lie and hide it but it will happen , just be glad you got a warning cause most men dont ..

 

[Unprez]

this is why I dont bother askin for advice on this site...cuz most guys who are not gettin ***** is gonna make an attempt to make u do the same for some god knows reason...how the fk will a hug result in her cheatin??? prob just her feelin bad that she is huggin another guy simple as that....if anythin keep tabs on the guys she hugs and see how close they become but dont be paranoid or ur gonna get stupid advice all the time

 

[DonGorgon]

this is why I dont bother askin for advice on this site...cuz most guys who are not gettin ***** is gonna make an attempt to make u do the same for some god knows reason...how the fk will a hug result in her cheatin??? prob just her feelin bad that she is huggin another guy simple as that....if anythin keep tabs on the guys she hugs and see how close they become but dont be paranoid or ur gonna get stupid advice all the time

i dont think you understand the power of a womans inner ho....LOL

 

[Blabbidy]

Talk to her. Not the douche bags on here saying she's going to cheat on you.

 

[Zodiac]

this is why I dont bother askin for advice on this site...cuz most guys who are not gettin ***** is gonna make an attempt to make u do the same for some god knows reason...how the fk will a hug result in her cheatin??? prob just her feelin bad that she is huggin another guy simple as that....if anythin keep tabs on the guys she hugs and see how close they become but dont be paranoid or ur gonna get stupid advice all the time

Spoken like a true AFC.

So are you banging 2-7 different chicks a week with your elite DJ Skills? You dating a woman that compliments your abilities and mindset as a fully realized man that loves his life? Are you happy and fulfilled with where you are in your span of years you have roamed this Earth?

You crap all over good advice alerting the fact that many people if they had a chick like her tell them this then they would see this as a RED FLAG; myself included, then tell the OP to:

if anythin keep tabs on the guys she hugs and see how close they become but dont be paranoid or ur gonna get stupid advice all the time

That is a JEALOUS person's mindset if he did something like that. If you are dating someone you should be able to trust them to be alone with someone of either sex and know they wont screw around on you. Your advice does nothing but make him MORE paranoid by having to keep tabs on her presuming she might be cheating and instead of enjoying the relationship or moving on with his life, if he took your advice he would be digging his own grave which would be his own fault.

i dont think you understand the power of a womans inner ho....LOL

Its sad really but you are speaking the truth. Each one of your posts in this thread are nothing but stating a warning flag has been raised and the OP can accept it and deal with it in his own way or not and hope for the best. The ones that know nothing about behaviors try to shoot down good advice because they refuse to realize the truth because it goes against what they have been taught and come to accept over time.

I love how their only argument to "disprove" logic is:

cuz most guys who are not gettin ***** is gonna make an attempt to make u do the same for some god knows reason...how the fk will a hug result in her cheatin??? prob just her feelin bad that she is huggin another guy simple as that...

Pot calling the kettle black there buddy?

What people need to realize is 80-90% of woman make no sense to the mindset of men and little off handed comments like the one the OP posted shows intent even if she has acted upon those thoughts yet. Note I said 80-90% not 100% because some women aren't nuts 100% of the time.

 

[DonGorgon]

Today i was with my girlfriend going home on the train. And she said "i have to tell u sumtin"

"my friend came up to me and said, Can i get a hug''..''i hugged him and afterwards i felt bad''..''i only want you to hug me''

why would she feel bad after a hug. Could this mean she liked the kid and felt something for him during the hug? Was she guilty of something?

Why would she feel bad?

or could it just be an innocent feeling?

she wants to F him and the hug mad her feel guilty cause she was turned on.. she is loosing interest in you and is very tempted by other men now.. she was testing yiou for insecurity so she could validate her preparations tok cheat or dump you..lol

what you need to do?

spend less time with her be less available act like you care less.. dont treat her as nice.. but at the same time you need to F her until she begs you to stop. you are not hooking her sexually .. you need to make her orgasm hard and long.. then dont call her for 2 days..

 

[Alex DeLarge]

I wouldn't think twice about it unless you see any red flags popping up soon.