Alright fellos there is this girl that is always compimenting on my looks the way I dress she even said one time I look smooth,nice,and dress like usher? anyways of course she is always also asking me where I bought my clothes at and the C+F I give her is I got it from a bum in downtown, or **** like that anyways I wondering what kind of compliment genarally that show that she has interest on you ex: your appearance,clothes,she says your funny, she repeats everything that you say that is funny, etc
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What Compliments Are Signs of Interest
- Thread starter mazda
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Miles Davis
Senior Don Juan
all of the above man. most compliments are signs of interest. assume she's into you and you can't go wrong.
I can only assume that you have not read the bible....
You have a long road to travel, brother.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
The bible is available in the link above.
I suggest reading it in its entirety.
It will only change you for the better.
Things that you will learn;
Not to worry about what women are thinking.
Worry about your d@mn self and your self image.
Learn to love yourself.
Be able to attract women.
....
Read the bible
~~~
maybe you have read the bible...
Then what the hell are you thinking??
you should be thinkin.. "hell yeah she wants me, I'm gonna ask this hot mama out to some hot night of some hot DJ passion!!"
But... you are not that confident.. which many of us aren't, sadly
Apply yourself, as your teachers say!
Considering you can overcome you pathetic AFC tendancies...
(Which each of us have to face everyonce in a while, its only human)
Ask her out!
Be a man,
Have fun!
Enjoy yourself!
Enjoy her!
It's life man! Love it!
Andromax
You have a long road to travel, brother.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
The bible is available in the link above.
I suggest reading it in its entirety.
It will only change you for the better.
Things that you will learn;
Not to worry about what women are thinking.
Worry about your d@mn self and your self image.
Learn to love yourself.
Be able to attract women.
....
Read the bible
~~~
maybe you have read the bible...
Then what the hell are you thinking??
you should be thinkin.. "hell yeah she wants me, I'm gonna ask this hot mama out to some hot night of some hot DJ passion!!"
But... you are not that confident.. which many of us aren't, sadly
Apply yourself, as your teachers say!
Considering you can overcome you pathetic AFC tendancies...
(Which each of us have to face everyonce in a while, its only human)
Ask her out!
Be a man,
Have fun!
Enjoy yourself!
Enjoy her!
It's life man! Love it!
Andromax
You know mazda, if you really were a DJ, and if you really had your bearings together, you would KNOW that she is into you based on the ridiculous amounts of compliments.
Rule: Women do not compliment you unless they:
1. Are interested in you
2. Want something from you (which is theoretically your body, mind, and soul if #1 is true)
So, get her on the go. If you are unsure, read the bible. But by the sounds of you, you need to get more confidence; Start self improvement.
Rule: Women do not compliment you unless they:
1. Are interested in you
2. Want something from you (which is theoretically your body, mind, and soul if #1 is true)
So, get her on the go. If you are unsure, read the bible. But by the sounds of you, you need to get more confidence; Start self improvement.
Scoiland
Senior Don Juan
once a girl compliments you more then once then go in for the kill dude
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
TesuqueRed
Master Don Juan
Compliments aren't a finesse thing -- it's a general direction thing in my experience, as in, it's all positive. It is simply a green light. Some wait for 1 or 2 greenlights, some need 20 or 30 greenlights and even then won't believe what they're seeing.
In my experience, the sooner you act the better. It's part of the (let's get together) dance and you don't want to be late on your timing.
mazda, baby, time to downshift
In my experience, the sooner you act the better. It's part of the (let's get together) dance and you don't want to be late on your timing.
mazda, baby, time to downshift
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Compliments from women
Unless they insert a qualifier or make a backhanded compliment, most women will rarely be so forward as to compliment a man.
Unless she obviously is trying to get something from you, assume she's interested and run with it right then and there.
Unless they insert a qualifier or make a backhanded compliment, most women will rarely be so forward as to compliment a man.
Unless she obviously is trying to get something from you, assume she's interested and run with it right then and there.
DeathDealer
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remember the line "what she says and what she does" are two completely fkkn different things.
just because she says you dress nice or you have cool hair doesn't mean anything if her body position is away from you, arms crossed - etc.
now if she said i have nice hair and is rubbing my head, then yeah that's a sign of interest.
just pay attention to actions.
just because she says you dress nice or you have cool hair doesn't mean anything if her body position is away from you, arms crossed - etc.
now if she said i have nice hair and is rubbing my head, then yeah that's a sign of interest.
just pay attention to actions.
You can't just depend to rely on small things like complements. I was going out with this HB from my school and I took her out on a date. She was just full of great compliments which I replied to using C&F. There was a lot more going for me than this, but long story short the date didn't work out. Even your gut feelings can be wrong sometimes.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.