Alright fellos there is this girl that is always compimenting on my looks the way I dress she even said one time I look smooth,nice,and dress like usher? anyways of course she is always also asking me where I bought my clothes at and the C+F I give her is I got it from a bum in downtown, or **** like that anyways I wondering what kind of compliment genarally that show that she has interest on you ex: your appearance,clothes,she says your funny, she repeats everything that you say that is funny, etc
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What Compliments Are Signs of Interest
- Thread starter mazda
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Miles Davis
Senior Don Juan
all of the above man. most compliments are signs of interest. assume she's into you and you can't go wrong.
I can only assume that you have not read the bible....
You have a long road to travel, brother.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
The bible is available in the link above.
I suggest reading it in its entirety.
It will only change you for the better.
Things that you will learn;
Not to worry about what women are thinking.
Worry about your d@mn self and your self image.
Learn to love yourself.
Be able to attract women.
....
Read the bible
~~~
maybe you have read the bible...
Then what the hell are you thinking??
you should be thinkin.. "hell yeah she wants me, I'm gonna ask this hot mama out to some hot night of some hot DJ passion!!"
But... you are not that confident.. which many of us aren't, sadly
Apply yourself, as your teachers say!
Considering you can overcome you pathetic AFC tendancies...
(Which each of us have to face everyonce in a while, its only human)
Ask her out!
Be a man,
Have fun!
Enjoy yourself!
Enjoy her!
It's life man! Love it!
Andromax
You have a long road to travel, brother.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
The bible is available in the link above.
I suggest reading it in its entirety.
It will only change you for the better.
Things that you will learn;
Not to worry about what women are thinking.
Worry about your d@mn self and your self image.
Learn to love yourself.
Be able to attract women.
....
Read the bible
~~~
maybe you have read the bible...
Then what the hell are you thinking??
you should be thinkin.. "hell yeah she wants me, I'm gonna ask this hot mama out to some hot night of some hot DJ passion!!"
But... you are not that confident.. which many of us aren't, sadly
Apply yourself, as your teachers say!
Considering you can overcome you pathetic AFC tendancies...
(Which each of us have to face everyonce in a while, its only human)
Ask her out!
Be a man,
Have fun!
Enjoy yourself!
Enjoy her!
It's life man! Love it!
Andromax
You know mazda, if you really were a DJ, and if you really had your bearings together, you would KNOW that she is into you based on the ridiculous amounts of compliments.
Rule: Women do not compliment you unless they:
1. Are interested in you
2. Want something from you (which is theoretically your body, mind, and soul if #1 is true)
So, get her on the go. If you are unsure, read the bible. But by the sounds of you, you need to get more confidence; Start self improvement.
Rule: Women do not compliment you unless they:
1. Are interested in you
2. Want something from you (which is theoretically your body, mind, and soul if #1 is true)
So, get her on the go. If you are unsure, read the bible. But by the sounds of you, you need to get more confidence; Start self improvement.
Scoiland
Senior Don Juan
once a girl compliments you more then once then go in for the kill dude
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
TesuqueRed
Master Don Juan
Compliments aren't a finesse thing -- it's a general direction thing in my experience, as in, it's all positive. It is simply a green light. Some wait for 1 or 2 greenlights, some need 20 or 30 greenlights and even then won't believe what they're seeing.
In my experience, the sooner you act the better. It's part of the (let's get together) dance and you don't want to be late on your timing.
mazda, baby, time to downshift
In my experience, the sooner you act the better. It's part of the (let's get together) dance and you don't want to be late on your timing.
mazda, baby, time to downshift
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Compliments from women
Unless they insert a qualifier or make a backhanded compliment, most women will rarely be so forward as to compliment a man.
Unless she obviously is trying to get something from you, assume she's interested and run with it right then and there.
Unless they insert a qualifier or make a backhanded compliment, most women will rarely be so forward as to compliment a man.
Unless she obviously is trying to get something from you, assume she's interested and run with it right then and there.
DeathDealer
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remember the line "what she says and what she does" are two completely fkkn different things.
just because she says you dress nice or you have cool hair doesn't mean anything if her body position is away from you, arms crossed - etc.
now if she said i have nice hair and is rubbing my head, then yeah that's a sign of interest.
just pay attention to actions.
just because she says you dress nice or you have cool hair doesn't mean anything if her body position is away from you, arms crossed - etc.
now if she said i have nice hair and is rubbing my head, then yeah that's a sign of interest.
just pay attention to actions.
You can't just depend to rely on small things like complements. I was going out with this HB from my school and I took her out on a date. She was just full of great compliments which I replied to using C&F. There was a lot more going for me than this, but long story short the date didn't work out. Even your gut feelings can be wrong sometimes.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.