"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What communities would you recommend for LTR & marriage?

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Hey guys!! Johnny here!

We all know that SoSuave focuses on helping men improve their dating lives, understand women, and develop practical skills they can apply in real life to build a richer, more fulfilling life surrounded by women.

But when it comes to LTRs and marriage, what communities, forums, or group of people would the members of SoSuave recommend for learning more about those topics and to get in touch with other men?

I'd love to hear about
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey guys!! Johnny here!

We all know that SoSuave focuses on helping men improve their dating lives, understand women, and develop practical skills they can apply in real life to build a richer, more fulfilling life surrounded by women.

But when it comes to LTRs and marriage, what communities, forums, or group of people would the members of SoSuave recommend for learning more about those topics and to get in touch with other men?

I'd love to hear about
You need a forum for that?
 

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R/ relationships

The best place to learn how to be a good little b1tch and prolong your dead bedroom


Nah seriously, regardless of what kinda relationship you have with a woman, the basics will always remain undefeated. You've wrote countless threads about observations from your own life, yiur sister parents friends ect and now you wanna fall back to square one and restart?

Most men are inherently bluepilled and will volunteer to be in a bad relationship...the type that will eventually die, but can indeed be prolonged for some time. Type of relationship that makes you " have sexdates on each 3rd Sunday of the month".

so yeah, r/ relationships might be what you're looking for...
 

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the good and the bad news. your in the right spot here already.

the issue is that the details are opaque..

think of it like a stack where upper layers are dependent on lower layers. what your learning here is layer 1 and maybe 2... if you have ever worked on optimization of 'dynamic' things the place to do it is layer 1 and 2 if you can. if you fix it at layer 10, its going to really expensive in one way or another.

just go for the root of the issue and layer 3-10 become less important.

if layer 10 is getting your attention then look closer at 1 and 2.

one exception is that nothing learned here will help if you have a chemical issue.
 

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Communities? Good luck finding that in the West where diky feminist and career women are around. You need to travel my friend, get your butt to South America or South East Asia and check out some traditionally minded women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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@jhonny9546 Solid women for LTRs can be found in almost every community of humans on this planet. Idea for increasing one's chances...

Take an exhaustive, unsentimental look at yourself, then inquire: "Am I currently the sort of person who enriches and invigorates the lives of others? Would I want the person I am now in my orbit, if I were someone else?"
 

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i recently heard of a community that talks more about relationships for men, it's really dope, it also talks about quitting porn, being married, or an LTR, practicing sexual transmutation and more .
 

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i recently heard of a community that talks more about relationships for men, it's really dope, it also talks about quitting porn, being married, or an LTR, practicing sexual transmutation and more .
Send me that in DM so we don't spam, thanks!

ake an exhaustive, unsentimental look at yourself, then inquire: "Am I currently the sort of person who enriches and invigorates the lives of others? Would I want the person I am now in my orbit, if I were someone else?"
Yes this is actually solid advice, also get your help from someone you trust
will help if you have a chemical issue.
What do you mean by that? using drugs/alchohol?
 

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What do you mean by that? using drugs/alchohol?
can be. the body is a machine. the mind is a machine. biology and chemistry. it is far more complicated than i can understand. anything that affects the machine. think about an engine (old style). needs to be tunned and taken care of if you want performance and reliability. no oil, no running after a short time.

there are thousands or millions of variables in the human. your thoughts, emotions, actions, everything is controled by the machine. you can get a different behaviour by changing it.

lots of gym rats are doing because it feels good, not just for the visual.. it causes many chemicals to be adjusted in the body.

trt is an old topic... its more than just adding test.

alchahol, drugs (of any kind), coffee (its a drug...). you get the idea. used to be smoking was a big one...

not telling you what to adjust, just know that there are lots of adjustments available and they matter. even sleep, has a massive effect.

i am one of the people you shared photo with... you look good enough. being ugly is not your issue. and you seem to have more knowledge than most about the topics. i mean you can explain the issues in detail. the doing is the hard part... usually that's chemical triggers.
 

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here are thousands or millions of variables in the human. your thoughts, emotions, actions, everything is controled by the machine. you can get a different behaviour by changing it.
I am not a scientist but I can confirm since I had some friends on pills, but also you can see that on how women libido change on birth control
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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