"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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dnscache

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Hey Guys... newbie here needing some advice.

Met this girl at a hookah bar a few days ago with her friends. Me and my friends chatted with them for probably an hour, then we all went out to eat. I am in the middle of some serious stuff with another girl (3 year relationship ended) and wasn't even thinking about getting someones number. So, we all part ways but not after I invited them to my friends party. They said they had other plans. Anyway... two days later the one I was eyeing adds me on the old Facebook. The next day I shoot her a message inviting her down to a thing they do each year in my city on Thanksgiving, and saying I didn't have any other way to contact her so I went with the facebook message. She sends me one back after the event is over apologizing, but gives me her number.

Now... I'm a bit confused on where to take this. Any advice from the pros?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Where's the confusion?

Sounds like she is interested (she added you and facebook after all), but couldn't make it to the Thanksgiving thing for whatever reason (which is to be expected on holidays).

Call her in a few days and invite her to go do something with you.
 
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That's pretty much what I was saying... there's somethin I'm doing tonight, but wasn't sure if that's too early to see.

And call, no text?
 
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Definitely call. Everybody texts nowadays. Set yourself apart from the rest of the crowd. Its also more personal.
 
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