"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dnscache

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Hey Guys... newbie here needing some advice.

Met this girl at a hookah bar a few days ago with her friends. Me and my friends chatted with them for probably an hour, then we all went out to eat. I am in the middle of some serious stuff with another girl (3 year relationship ended) and wasn't even thinking about getting someones number. So, we all part ways but not after I invited them to my friends party. They said they had other plans. Anyway... two days later the one I was eyeing adds me on the old Facebook. The next day I shoot her a message inviting her down to a thing they do each year in my city on Thanksgiving, and saying I didn't have any other way to contact her so I went with the facebook message. She sends me one back after the event is over apologizing, but gives me her number.

Now... I'm a bit confused on where to take this. Any advice from the pros?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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theunflushables

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Where's the confusion?

Sounds like she is interested (she added you and facebook after all), but couldn't make it to the Thanksgiving thing for whatever reason (which is to be expected on holidays).

Call her in a few days and invite her to go do something with you.
 

dnscache

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That's pretty much what I was saying... there's somethin I'm doing tonight, but wasn't sure if that's too early to see.

And call, no text?
 

theunflushables

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Definitely call. Everybody texts nowadays. Set yourself apart from the rest of the crowd. Its also more personal.
 
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