"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What clothing style am I?

PrinceKong

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I'm not into the prep, nor the gangster look. And honestly, what else is there?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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peterw20

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What do you mean by "prep?" a&f?

Do you care how you look? If so try going to a nordstrom, or nordstrom rack. but I guess you could define that as preppy too.
What do you wear now?
 

PrinceKong

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By prep i mean the typical polo and cargos. Basically hollister, a&e, abercrombie, and etc.

Honestly, yea, i do care how i look. But on the normal way, not the obsessed feminine way. I'm not the kind of person who looks at themselves while walking by a reflection.

Right now I dress more preppy but no shorts, just jeans. Polos and jeans is what i wear mostly, and i feel like i want more variety. I'm in good shape, good proportions and all that. Just a little muscular legs due to football, but thats it.
 

john paul

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You dont need to catergorize yourself into a group. Most of us here dont consider ourselves to dress preppy or anything else. You just need to know what looks good and what looks stupid.
Polos and jeans work for me too. But maybe you should get a pair of american eagle shorts just so you can mix it in there. You dont want to always look the same. Some days I dress like trash with cutoff shirts and old jeans and other days I dress up.

I just think its good to be versatile with your clothing. If your not then try some new things and expand your wardrobe.
 

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for me this summer its æ jeans on cooler days ( if theyre on any :p) and i just got some cargo shorts, swimshorts, and a bunch of ocean pacific shirts :p along with crocs or flipflops
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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dogg, thats not prep.

prep is ivy league dress code.

ralph lauren or such.

i don't know what to classify abercrombie and AE and such as...
 
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