"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What clothing style am I?

PrinceKong

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I'm not into the prep, nor the gangster look. And honestly, what else is there?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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peterw20

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What do you mean by "prep?" a&f?

Do you care how you look? If so try going to a nordstrom, or nordstrom rack. but I guess you could define that as preppy too.
What do you wear now?
 

PrinceKong

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By prep i mean the typical polo and cargos. Basically hollister, a&e, abercrombie, and etc.

Honestly, yea, i do care how i look. But on the normal way, not the obsessed feminine way. I'm not the kind of person who looks at themselves while walking by a reflection.

Right now I dress more preppy but no shorts, just jeans. Polos and jeans is what i wear mostly, and i feel like i want more variety. I'm in good shape, good proportions and all that. Just a little muscular legs due to football, but thats it.
 

john paul

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You dont need to catergorize yourself into a group. Most of us here dont consider ourselves to dress preppy or anything else. You just need to know what looks good and what looks stupid.
Polos and jeans work for me too. But maybe you should get a pair of american eagle shorts just so you can mix it in there. You dont want to always look the same. Some days I dress like trash with cutoff shirts and old jeans and other days I dress up.

I just think its good to be versatile with your clothing. If your not then try some new things and expand your wardrobe.
 

Teh_Wolf

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for me this summer its æ jeans on cooler days ( if theyre on any :p) and i just got some cargo shorts, swimshorts, and a bunch of ocean pacific shirts :p along with crocs or flipflops
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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dogg, thats not prep.

prep is ivy league dress code.

ralph lauren or such.

i don't know what to classify abercrombie and AE and such as...
 
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