"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
what clique do you belong to/were you? what is your image?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
CoRVeTTe6699
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."Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
Last night I hungout with ghetto-ass kids n smoked.
2 nights ago i hungout with preps n got trashed.
I'm playin lacrosse next year.
That makes me a skating-ghetto-prepish-jock.
I'm friends with everyone and everybody. But in ym grade I'm pretty much known as the biggest pothead around.
And I am advanced classes. hooray for me.
MidwestFreek
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i chill with the potheads..the jocks...preps...ill be caught sociallizing with the nerds here and there...and i dont have a clique specific style...ive got my own little style that i dont see much of nebody wearing..and i tend to keep it like that...if some1 starts to copy my style...i change it a little...
I try not to hang around the people in my school, and rather find friends outside of school who are more fun/richer/wilder/more connections/important. most of the people in my school are being something they are not, and i can see right through them...
one time somebody tried to pick on me, call me names and push me around. and that night me and my "CREW" ripped out all of that guys hair and snapped off his fingernails. it was beautiful.
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
I'm punker/rocker/blader/jockish/cool type of person.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I am myself.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
umm.....my image is that of an attractive young male.
Poppin' Tags
Don Juan
You sound to me like you are a ****ing loser.
You and your ""CREW"" are probably the type of guys that sit around trying to convince people that you are hard and masculine by threatening people and fighting because inside you are empty and you lack self-esteem (and ya just might be GAY! Oh but dont even think about that leave it forever ruminating in your head and block it out when you can by torturing people and then BRAGGING about it! The kid CALLED YOU NAMES. Those are WORDS. Are you really so uncertain about yourself that namecalling effects you THAT much?)
Anyway, if you're so hard then why didn't you do anything when the guy was making fun of you in the first place? Oh yeah, you are too weak to take care of your own problems so you ran and grabbed your bodyguards.
Gay or not gay grifter, just choose one!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Poppin' Tags
Don Juan
I used to be straight stoner and hung out with stoners. I dressed preppy. Then I started hanging out with a really rich prep kid (17 with a 1998 M3. bastard.) and I didnt smoke much anymore. I hung out with alot of jocks and preps.
At parties the preps and stoners are one. We all mix in.
In the past months I hung out with 2 girls ALOT. One of was my best friend now, now shes my girlfriend, but the other was annoying. and fat. and annoying. We dont hang out with her anymore.
I met my other best friend less than 2 months ago. He is impossible to group. All 3 of us are together most of the time. We could be labeled alcoholics i guess
or partiers.I used to be a skater for a few years but then I quit for a long time. This summer I started back up. I skate alot but I dont really hang out with many skaters.
Anyway, i pretty much hang out with everyone at college. Everyone knows me, i tend to float between the different "groups" of people during each day talking to everyone.
We dont have jocks/cheerleaders etc. here, just the Rock group, the Hip Hop people, the Geeks and the Anti-Social Crew (people who hide out some place and hardly talk to anyone, funnily enough i talk to them sometimes, though i dont hang with them). In fact we got a mix of all kinds of people where i live, there are usually a few disputes about music etc. but everyone pretty much gets along with each other.