"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What City to Relocate To?

What City to Relocate To? Pick your favorite two.

  • Buckhead, GA (sort of a giant mall)

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Savannah, GA (basically the nearest ocean)

    Votes: 1 7.7%
  • Destin, FL (equidistant ocean in panhandle of FL)

    Votes: 1 7.7%
  • Charleston, SC (where some family live)

    Votes: 3 23.1%
  • Austin, TX (Dallas for Dummies, lots of stripper exes)

    Votes: 1 7.7%
  • Dallas, TX (I have a romance there)

    Votes: 3 23.1%
  • New York City (where one job is, and where I have a girl who loves me)

    Votes: 4 30.8%
  • Upstate New York (where one of the jobs is based out of)

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Silicon Valley, CA (where most of the work is, but where no women really are)

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • (Other, please list)

    Votes: 4 30.8%

  • Total voters
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bigneil

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After spending a year in northeast Atlanta my lease is up and my roommate lost his job so there is no longer any reason to stay here (I was basically living for free, for serving an extra serving of dinner every night and paying the electric bill, so it was a good deal).

My next job(s) are work at home. So I can move. I haven't had nearly the same luck in Atlanta as I did in Houston, Austin, Dallas or even Silicon Valley, so I'm wondering where to move next.

In the poll above people can pick their favorite two choices. Note many choices are simply based on proximity.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Waimanalo, Hawaii (beautiful, great weather, close to other cities with lots of ladies)
 

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Bigneil if you move to Dallas let me know because I want to learn more about it. This weekend in Vegas I met 4 girls from TX who were really friendly and told me I should move out there. It was almost like a sign on something.
 

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Bigneil if you move to Dallas let me know because I want to learn more about it. This weekend in Vegas I met 4 girls from TX who were really friendly and told me I should move out there. It was almost like a sign on something.
You now know what Texas women are like. They are the best. Most women nationwide couldn't even get a date in Texas, and no rude women can. Part of it is that in Texas you can get laid in most strip clubs for $400 or less, so many strippers will date you for free, and non-hookers can't push men around like they can in most states. Texas women have to provide a good value to compete, so they tend to be very pretty and sweet and smart. Hardly any other states offer that combination.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I considered San Antonio. Never been there. Dallas has nice spots but it's not a pretty area. It's Atlanta minus the trees.

I learned yesterday that my Dallas girl moved to Tampa, which is only 100 miles further than Pensacola from Atlanta. So I might drive down there, but not unless she begs me. I want to hit the ocean and then head back to Texas. Last time I lived in Florida it was hard to find work. It might be a coincidence. Texas is a good central location for someone who travels. Most software jobs don't advertise as such, but are mostly work at home these days.
 

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San Diego---Hottest chicks in the country IMO, great weather tons to do jet-ski, boating, hiking,

Nightlife is hopping (it's a tourism hub so tons of new chicks)

it's pricy but it's like a Mini-NYC of the westcoast
 

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Anywhere west of the Mississippi river. Colorado, Oregon, or Montana are my faves.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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yesssssssssss I was shocked
Once you can get past the far left Bernie Sander lover politics, there is a lot to love about the Northwest. People are relatively laid back, not judgmental, not much of the keeping up with the joneses nonsense you see on the coasts and in southern cities, and it is very safe.
 

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Once you can get past the far left Bernie Sander lover politics, there is a lot to love about the Northwest. People are relatively laid back, not judgmental, not much of the keeping up with the joneses nonsense you see on the coasts and in southern cities, and it is very safe.
I'm sure the attitude there has.... nothing to do with the "far left Bern Sander lover politics," eh?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Savannah, Georgia is beautiful. I love visiting there.
 
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