"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What City to Relocate To?

What City to Relocate To? Pick your favorite two.

  • Buckhead, GA (sort of a giant mall)

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Savannah, GA (basically the nearest ocean)

    Votes: 1 7.7%

  • Destin, FL (equidistant ocean in panhandle of FL)

    Votes: 1 7.7%

  • Charleston, SC (where some family live)

    Votes: 3 23.1%

  • Austin, TX (Dallas for Dummies, lots of stripper exes)

    Votes: 1 7.7%

  • Dallas, TX (I have a romance there)

    Votes: 3 23.1%

  • New York City (where one job is, and where I have a girl who loves me)

    Votes: 4 30.8%

  • Upstate New York (where one of the jobs is based out of)

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Silicon Valley, CA (where most of the work is, but where no women really are)

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • (Other, please list)

    Votes: 4 30.8%
  • Total voters
    13
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After spending a year in northeast Atlanta my lease is up and my roommate lost his job so there is no longer any reason to stay here (I was basically living for free, for serving an extra serving of dinner every night and paying the electric bill, so it was a good deal).

My next job(s) are work at home. So I can move. I haven't had nearly the same luck in Atlanta as I did in Houston, Austin, Dallas or even Silicon Valley, so I'm wondering where to move next.

In the poll above people can pick their favorite two choices. Note many choices are simply based on proximity.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Waimanalo, Hawaii (beautiful, great weather, close to other cities with lots of ladies)
 
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Bigneil if you move to Dallas let me know because I want to learn more about it. This weekend in Vegas I met 4 girls from TX who were really friendly and told me I should move out there. It was almost like a sign on something.
 
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skinnyguy said:
Bigneil if you move to Dallas let me know because I want to learn more about it. This weekend in Vegas I met 4 girls from TX who were really friendly and told me I should move out there. It was almost like a sign on something.
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You now know what Texas women are like. They are the best. Most women nationwide couldn't even get a date in Texas, and no rude women can. Part of it is that in Texas you can get laid in most strip clubs for $400 or less, so many strippers will date you for free, and non-hookers can't push men around like they can in most states. Texas women have to provide a good value to compete, so they tend to be very pretty and sweet and smart. Hardly any other states offer that combination.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I considered San Antonio. Never been there. Dallas has nice spots but it's not a pretty area. It's Atlanta minus the trees.

I learned yesterday that my Dallas girl moved to Tampa, which is only 100 miles further than Pensacola from Atlanta. So I might drive down there, but not unless she begs me. I want to hit the ocean and then head back to Texas. Last time I lived in Florida it was hard to find work. It might be a coincidence. Texas is a good central location for someone who travels. Most software jobs don't advertise as such, but are mostly work at home these days.
 
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San Diego---Hottest chicks in the country IMO, great weather tons to do jet-ski, boating, hiking,

Nightlife is hopping (it's a tourism hub so tons of new chicks)

it's pricy but it's like a Mini-NYC of the westcoast
 
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Anywhere west of the Mississippi river. Colorado, Oregon, or Montana are my faves.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dhoulmagus said:
yesssssssssss I was shocked
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Once you can get past the far left Bernie Sander lover politics, there is a lot to love about the Northwest. People are relatively laid back, not judgmental, not much of the keeping up with the joneses nonsense you see on the coasts and in southern cities, and it is very safe.
 
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Good Gao said:
Once you can get past the far left Bernie Sander lover politics, there is a lot to love about the Northwest. People are relatively laid back, not judgmental, not much of the keeping up with the joneses nonsense you see on the coasts and in southern cities, and it is very safe.
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I'm sure the attitude there has.... nothing to do with the "far left Bern Sander lover politics," eh?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Savannah, Georgia is beautiful. I love visiting there.
 
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