Hey guys I was kissing this girl today and have in the past as well, and she said to me ,she has millions of butterflys everytime, I go near her and kiss her or do more ? she also said that she has never had that with any guy before ,and I dont think shes lying seemed very genuine,just wondering what are these butterflys ? what causes them ? is she in love what do you think ? thanks guys
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What causes so called Butterflys.....
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Butterflies are from body's fight or flight response. You often get them in a negative way if you have "performance anxiety," in situations like meeting new people or public speaking. It's a strong physiological response involving adrenaline and your adrenal glands (located above your kidneys), and it usually means you're way into someone and are concerned about impressing them, i.e., they have signalled strong social value to you.
The emotions and the body's (and brain's) chemistry are very interrelated, and all three are related to your health. When you are first in love with a new person and begin to experience their touch, etc. you get overloaded with endorphines like Dopamine and Seretonin, and these things do tend to cement the bond with that new person, creating quasi-drug addict behavior in the two of you. There are lots of good articles on these things if you just google:
endorphines, dopamine, drenalin, fight or flight, relationships, brain chemistry, frontal cortex, etc.
The emotions and the body's (and brain's) chemistry are very interrelated, and all three are related to your health. When you are first in love with a new person and begin to experience their touch, etc. you get overloaded with endorphines like Dopamine and Seretonin, and these things do tend to cement the bond with that new person, creating quasi-drug addict behavior in the two of you. There are lots of good articles on these things if you just google:
endorphines, dopamine, drenalin, fight or flight, relationships, brain chemistry, frontal cortex, etc.
but surely this goes down after awhile being with that person ,its usually at the start that this happens is that right ? also what would you say if she asks you do you get them ? which I dont ,she may think Im not as much into her as she is with me ? any ideas there thanks again
spider_007
Master Don Juan
tell her you get them whe she does certan things (such as nibbel on your neck or touch you in cetan way....use your imagination).
That way at least you encurage her to make you feel good.
it's all a good thing.
That way at least you encurage her to make you feel good.
it's all a good thing.
Most likely it's a good thing.Anfz said:Hey guys I was kissing this girl today and have in the past as well, and she said to me ,she has millions of butterflys everytime, I go near her and kiss her or do more ? she also said that she has never had that with any guy before ,and I dont think shes lying seemed very genuine,just wondering what are these butterflys ? what causes them ? is she in love what do you think ? thanks guys
Unless she ate larva for breakfast. Then it's not a good thing.
Assume it's a good thing, especially if she seems to enjoy the kiss.
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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.