"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What car do you drive?
- Thread starter falloutboy
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yeap...both cars have a good baseline to be made to go very fast...I prefer the Z06...my dream car would be a Z06 with an MTI 422 stroked/bored engine and SLAM twin turbo kit....would definitely kill just about any car and bike on the road...
-DJLiquid
Biz
Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
1967 Chevy Camaro SS-My toy, got it for a graduation present from high school, its my baby. In storage for the winter in my father's garage.
2003 Mazda 6-Excellent car. Good handling, the appearence is good inside and out. Was the girl's but she broke up with me and I took over the payments so its mine now.
1998 Toyota Tacoma-My winter daily driver. Don't wanna scratch the paint on the Mazda or BMW. 4WD, was my father's but its mine now. Not a bad truck at all.
Overall, I have way too many damn cars.
Crotch Sniffer
Banned
yeaaahhhh boyee!
I can only do about 20 mph and people curse at me on the highway all the time, but fukkem...they got no taste
Chewy Bagel
Senior Don Juan
Did I pass the cool-guy test?
GlutusMaximus86
Master Don Juan
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
E-Z Rider
Master Don Juan
Cool. I roll a 90 300ZX, non turbo for now =)
markk30
Don Juan
Damn, none of you guys must be from Hawaii. Where are all of the Hondas?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Trant
Don Juan
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
THA REALNESS
Banned
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.