"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What car do you drive?
- Thread starter falloutboy
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yeap...both cars have a good baseline to be made to go very fast...I prefer the Z06...my dream car would be a Z06 with an MTI 422 stroked/bored engine and SLAM twin turbo kit....would definitely kill just about any car and bike on the road...
-DJLiquid
Biz
Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
1967 Chevy Camaro SS-My toy, got it for a graduation present from high school, its my baby. In storage for the winter in my father's garage.
2003 Mazda 6-Excellent car. Good handling, the appearence is good inside and out. Was the girl's but she broke up with me and I took over the payments so its mine now.
1998 Toyota Tacoma-My winter daily driver. Don't wanna scratch the paint on the Mazda or BMW. 4WD, was my father's but its mine now. Not a bad truck at all.
Overall, I have way too many damn cars.
Crotch Sniffer
Banned
yeaaahhhh boyee!
I can only do about 20 mph and people curse at me on the highway all the time, but fukkem...they got no taste
Chewy Bagel
Senior Don Juan
Did I pass the cool-guy test?
GlutusMaximus86
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
E-Z Rider
Master Don Juan
Cool. I roll a 90 300ZX, non turbo for now =)
markk30
Don Juan
Damn, none of you guys must be from Hawaii. Where are all of the Hondas?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Trant
Don Juan
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
THA REALNESS
Banned
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.