"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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defiancy

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well djing in high school seems pretty decent for me. I have a good numbe rof girls interested in me so I'll have to close the date soon. Anyways, for some reason some sophomore asian girls(im asian btw) try to get my attention. One time a girl was near me and was engaging in a convo with a sophomore i know (im freshman by the way) and when i look at her durign their convo' she does the hair flip

I don't really get why they need to get my attention especially when I don't remember displaying value or DJing them.

Or I may have somehow displayed value to them

It's confusing stuff because I'm not sure if its real interest or not and why they try to get my attention (especially when they're not AWs)

Then again, I'm probably overanalyzing this, but it happens a good number of times.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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diablo, you could at least help him out when you have the time to move it.
 
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defiancy

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errr
 
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it probobly is interest and you should definately think that. You probobly displayed value through being C+F , having social proof and what not- it doesn't have to be an aggressive thing- and in terms of interest you can seriously never know for sure- but kino them invite them out , build rapport- girls are messed up
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Zaine
diablo, you could at least help him out when you have the time to move it.
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Time to move: 3 seconds

Time to help: Longer then your awesome contribution.
 
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If it matters to you, just talk to her and get to know her. If she reciprocates to your come on then she is interested. Usually all you have to do is talk to a girl to get her vibe towards you.
 
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