"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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defiancy

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well djing in high school seems pretty decent for me. I have a good numbe rof girls interested in me so I'll have to close the date soon. Anyways, for some reason some sophomore asian girls(im asian btw) try to get my attention. One time a girl was near me and was engaging in a convo with a sophomore i know (im freshman by the way) and when i look at her durign their convo' she does the hair flip

I don't really get why they need to get my attention especially when I don't remember displaying value or DJing them.

Or I may have somehow displayed value to them

It's confusing stuff because I'm not sure if its real interest or not and why they try to get my attention (especially when they're not AWs)

Then again, I'm probably overanalyzing this, but it happens a good number of times.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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diablo, you could at least help him out when you have the time to move it.
 
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defiancy

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errr
 
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it probobly is interest and you should definately think that. You probobly displayed value through being C+F , having social proof and what not- it doesn't have to be an aggressive thing- and in terms of interest you can seriously never know for sure- but kino them invite them out , build rapport- girls are messed up
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Zaine
diablo, you could at least help him out when you have the time to move it.
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Time to move: 3 seconds

Time to help: Longer then your awesome contribution.
 
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If it matters to you, just talk to her and get to know her. If she reciprocates to your come on then she is interested. Usually all you have to do is talk to a girl to get her vibe towards you.
 
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