"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What can a woman OFFER besides sex?

Drum&Bass

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Babnik don't be a fool, women are people / men are people..theres only so much people can offer other people when it comes to NON-SEXUAL full-fillment..what ever a man can offer a man a woman can offer a man, those are your only non-sexual options.

Of course Women can ONLY OFFER SEX TO MAN (only thing different a woman can offer to man that another man can't), but you need to find a woman who doesn't hold you to some fantasy ideal and can accept you for your goals, honesty, personality, ambition etc..

None of us wants to have sex with a woman who we can't share our weakness with and vice versa..

your upset right now and i'm getting that through your posts but stay logical and put things in perspective..if your really getting frustrated, do some push-ups.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Babnik

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sparky0000 said:
it is a great thing. i come from a long line of males who never allowed themselves to do those things. i would prefer a 5'9 girl with size 24' waist and big blue eyes to do those things for me. i know where to find them as well :rock: these days i think you pretty much need to move to the former soviet union to find girls who actually want to take care of you. in ukraine it is part of the culture for a man to be served by his wife or girlfriend. it is an insult to most girls if you try to help her do things. it has nothing to do with her wanting your money. just part of the culture.

the army is for followers. i am not a follower. the army is simply an extension of high school football and fraternity life. the toughest thing in life is to be your own man. the army teaches you to be somebody else's man.

support is not given by men. if you need support as a man then you are a puss. i f*** up a lot. probably more than most of you. however, i love myself. most of you hate yourselves. i don't need anyone to tell me that i am special. my key is that i learned not to give a damn if i screw up or make a fool of myself. it happens. as long as i am doing something that others are not doing i am content with myself.

You need to learn from screw ups...make a notice at least.


I'm from the Ukraine...
 

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Babnik said:
Well, OK...but like thats what any other man can offer. I am saying that woman as a being, as something different from man can ONLY offer sex.
By asking what women, as something different from man can offer other than sex, you imply that all that men have to offer is useless, if all that women can offer is sex!

Why does it have to be something men can't do? If you have intelligent men and women, and presumably are able to talk your politics with both, and have sex with only the one of them, which are more useful?

Let's reverse the question, what can men do for you, that women can't?

But if men can offer good things, and women can offer them too + sex + childbirth, what's the problem dude? It ads up to women being very good for you.

And if you can't talk to women or have fun with them, you've got some serious issues..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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