Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

What brought you to this site?

MissouriMark

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I've been on here for about a month and have read back about a year of posts and didn't see this topic at all, so don't know if it's been asked before or not.

Was there a particular incident or a time in your life that you ended up on the internet and typed something in the search engine and this site came up and so you came here out of curiosity and then became a regular?

I'll share my story later, nothing too great, but I wouldn't have found out about this site otherwise. Keeps me away from all the political sites for now.
 

corrector

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Was banned from an incel and noporn sites back in 2005 and tried this out. Also got banned from enotalone. They dont ban people here for politically incorrect when talking about women. People can speak their minds about women without feminazis attacking them.
 

devilkingx2

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I've been here for like 8-10 years. Since I was around 14-16. I was searching the internet for decent advice on women and I stumbled upon the red pill and PUA stuff.

Thank God I didn't end up getting my advice from one of the numerous subreddits that gives too much of a feminine blue pilled perspective instead of the gritty reality.
 

Glassguy

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In my teens and early 20s I slayed women. Got married in my late 20s which lasted nearly 9 years. I actually moved on from that rather quickly and was back to slaying women before the divorce papers could be typed up.
Then dated a much younger chick, got engaged, broke it off after 3 years. That one hurt because I allowed it to hurt. But eventually back to being me and successful in the dating world. One day I Google searched a particular topic about dating/relationships and found this site. The rest is history.
I stay on here because I like some of the poster's content and respect their viewpoints, and to help others avoid making the same silly mistakes over and over with women.
In life we might bang 500 women but there will only be a handful that we desire, respect and truly have potential to add significant value to our lives. So its important to self improve, know how to be the best version of yourself everyday and take advantage of opportunities as you never know when a rare opportunity will present itself.

Happy Hunting
 

lost_blackbird

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Autistically trying to research what went wrong with my marriage. Found this place
and found a lot of the content to be quite alien from my world view so joined to try
and learn something about female nature as I clearly don’t have a clue.
 

Macadellic

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I started sleeping with girls at the age of 15.

I’ve had the following type of relationships
- hookups/FWB/ONS/pump and dumps
- casual dating multiple women “plates”
- exclusively dating/short and medium term gf’s
- serious committed LTRs

However all these experiences were from a blue pilled belief system approach. It wasn’t until I allowed one girl to mess with me for a long period of a time. This resulted in taking a hard long look at myself and deciding to put in the work to fix and transform issues within. During my time of self growth and development a good friend told me about a set of books that helped him when he was going through a similar experience. The Rationale Male set of books RedPilled me and brought me to this forum.

I continue to grow, develop, mature and become better not just in dating women but in all areas of life. I can truly say that I’m happier and healthier than I have ever been.
 

Modern Man Advice

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I've been on here for about a month and have read back about a year of posts and didn't see this topic at all, so don't know if it's been asked before or not.

Was there a particular incident or a time in your life that you ended up on the internet and typed something in the search engine and this site came up and so you came here out of curiosity and then became a regular?

I'll share my story later, nothing too great, but I wouldn't have found out about this site otherwise. Keeps me away from all the political sites for now.
Be inspired and inspire.


Modern Man Advice
 

MissouriMark

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Basically for me it was letting a woman flake on me more than once and so I looked up on the internet what to do about it and found a thread on it and the rest is history....
 

eli77

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I've been here for like 8-10 years. Since I was around 14-16. I was searching the internet for decent advice on women and I stumbled upon the red pill and PUA stuff.

Thank God I didn't end up getting my advice from one of the numerous subreddits that gives too much of a feminine blue pilled perspective instead of the gritty reality.
same here
 

KindredSpiritzz

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Had "the one" break my heart 6 yrs ago, googled how to get over heart break or something and that led me down the rabbit hole til i ended up here.
 

Billtx49

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Googling a plates behavior patterns which returned BPD. Google search for BPD among others, returned this site…
The most personally useful experienced by members information found here.
 

rjc149

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Tough breakup for being way too "alpha," thinking all that PUA red pill stuff was going create healthy, long-lasting relationships with women.

I read an old archived thread here which set me straight -- why I needed to be alpha and have solid game, yes, but also where the pitfalls of that approach lie in actual relationships.

Then, I got banned from Loveshack because I simply couldn't get along with the b!tch SJW's who were running the show on the political threads. Mods gave me plenty of warnings, however. That was on me. I just couldn't help myself. There was a constant itch knowing that somewhere on the forum, some ignorant SJW needed to be owned.

Most of the other male-dominated seduction forums were rife with toxic misogyny or worse, ultra-right ideology. Perusing through some of the incel forums actually physically nauseates me. SS seemed to be the most palatable. Despite my issues with Rollo Tomassi, this forum's patron saint, he doesn't seem to be a bigot.
 
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