“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What books are mental toughness have you read lately that makes a difference

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The six pillars of self-esteem by Nathaniel breadman always does it for me also anything by Jordan Peterson.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Good thread, let's hear other gentlemen share their books that helped contribute to building their self-esteeem.
 
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Echoing the above and would also recommend Epictetus, but M Kiekegaard is probably a good one too though I have not read him yet but I get the impression he thinks everyone has a duty to be their best.
 
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The Bible, I recommended starting at the New Testament but read from the beginning if you want to get the real flavour of our existence and history.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Some books from my shelf that helped me in some way

Outliers by Gladwell
Peak by Ericson and Pool
Human, all too human by Nieztsche
Power of your subconscious mind by Murphy
Feeling is the secret by Neville
Meeting the shadow by Zweig
Candide by Voltaire
 
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Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, by Covey. That is all you need. But then you need the discipline to build these habits. You can't read a book and immediately develop mental toughness... You really don't need a book to do this. Mental toughness is a function of disciple, and discipline can only be achieved with practice.

My advice would be to pick one thing, that you are pretty sure you could not master... then master it. It could be anything from learning to juggle, playing a musical instrument, learning a new language, or to be more productive... complete a professional certification you need to expand your business opportunities.
 
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Please go on brothers, I'm making a list for myself here.
 
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EyeBRollin said:
Books cannot do it. Mental toughness is 100% application. You have to go through adversity. Fighting, sports, competition, rejection, hardships, injuries- they all build it.
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This thread is about BOOKS, the other stuff belongs to another thread.
 
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RangerMIke said:
Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, by Covey. That is all you need. But then you need the discipline to build these habits. You can't read a book and immediately develop mental toughness... You really don't need a book to do this. Mental toughness is a function of disciple, and discipline can only be achieved with practice.

My advice would be to pick one thing, that you are pretty sure you could not master... then master it. It could be anything from learning to juggle, playing a musical instrument, learning a new language, or to be more productive... complete a professional certification you need to expand your business opportunities.
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Have here a copy of Lenny Bailes Windows 98 and a signed copy of Frequency Robert Morris ....
 
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-The Obstacle is the Way
-Fathered by God
-Wild at Heart
 
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RangerMIke said:
Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, by Covey. That is all you need. But then you need the discipline to build these habits. You can't read a book and immediately develop mental toughness... You really don't need a book to do this. Mental toughness is a function of disciple, and discipline can only be achieved with practice.

My advice would be to pick one thing, that you are pretty sure you could not master... then master it. It could be anything from learning to juggle, playing a musical instrument, learning a new language, or to be more productive... complete a professional certification you need to expand your business opportunities.
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Awesome stuff read the one by his son as well is this very popular among the military crowd?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Meditations - Marcus A.
On The Shortness of Life - Seneca
Can't Hurt Me - David Goggins
 
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The classic answer: How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

Then take it up a level: 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
 
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