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Brave New World and a Peaceful Warrior
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What book helped change you life and break out if the so-called matrix
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
speed dawg
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No specific books to me. 7 Habits of Highly Effective People has the basic essentials I guess. Then the Bible. I've read a lot more totally worthless self-help/inspirational books than I have good ones.
I actually owe a ton to this website, rather than a book.
I actually owe a ton to this website, rather than a book.
Chev.Chelios
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Rational male
No excuses
Wild at heart
No more mr nice guy
READ AND WATCH CASINO
Its fcking epic dude, perfect example of an
Evil slu.t
No excuses
Wild at heart
No more mr nice guy
READ AND WATCH CASINO
Its fcking epic dude, perfect example of an
Evil slu.t
CuddleJunkie
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Rational male, yep, that's the one (game wise)
If you are into getting wiser, read some schopenhauer and nietzsche. If you want to go the spiritual route I recommend Theravada Buddhism. Christianity is cool if you find a traditional church (this will not happen tho)
If you are into getting wiser, read some schopenhauer and nietzsche. If you want to go the spiritual route I recommend Theravada Buddhism. Christianity is cool if you find a traditional church (this will not happen tho)
taiyuu_otoko
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
revolutionnow
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Saw casino like heat and the departed as well and have to throw in cruel intentions what an awesome flick
Bible_Belt
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Reminiscences of a Stock Operator - it's old enough that you can read it online for free. Here is the link: http://www.trading-naked.com/library/jesse_livermore.pdf
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Mostly just this website because you can still feel nuance and emotion through some texts here, like people post how they talk so I think just reading here is better than most books really. This sounds typical, but the Book of Pook was pretty good. Funny thing is, I didn't even read all of it haha. I prolly should but eh.
I d say rational male and practical female psychology for the practical man for understanding woman. Leil Lowndes staff is very good on social skills. But her Breathless Style and grating voice are pretty painful on audiobook
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
And a couple of fiction books:
The shallow man. Nice book on the dangers of the pua lifestyle.
Elmer Gantry. 1930s book about a traveling Bible salesman. Well written funny and full of interesting tricks for separating the ladies of the day from their bloomers
The shallow man. Nice book on the dangers of the pua lifestyle.
Elmer Gantry. 1930s book about a traveling Bible salesman. Well written funny and full of interesting tricks for separating the ladies of the day from their bloomers
I'd agree that everything you need is on this website. However finding and collating it is quite the job. It's easier to buy a few books for the foundation and then develop your own personal Style from experience and the material here that resonates for your stage of life and game.
zekko
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Saw the movie, haven't read it. The Robert De Niro character is a perfect example of an otherwise "alpha" type guy who gets emotionally involved with the wrong woman. Dude doesn't know how to screen.
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For me, it was mostly this website. I've read a bunch of books that helped me change my life, but this site was what got it all started. It's high importance and focus on self-improvement drove me to make the changes I needed to make in my life. I learned a lot of very useful things over the years while doing it, and that's what I enjoy sharing with others here.
Chev.Chelios
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Book is an excellent read. Alot different from the movie.Saw the movie, haven't read it. The Robert De Niro character is a perfect example of an otherwise "alpha" type guy who gets emotionally involved with the wrong woman. Dude doesn't know how to screen.
PURE REALITY and actually happened.
The casino boss(Lefty) is probably one of the most cringiest beta chodes of them all..
Rich gangster gets the stunner because of his money.
Of course shes a vegas hustler..single mommy,(babys dad is an LA pimp and scum bag)
Knocks her up twice to "lock her down" and marrys her giving her half of everything..
obsessive, neediness to the point of killing.
Fights were settled with +100k+ jewlerly
leaves with millions of dollars blowing it on drugs and biker partys
He takes her back over and over despite all of her unforgivable ****
She bangs the bosses best friend who is a rampant killer.
yada yada he almost gets blown up, she dies later
recommend everyone to read it <3
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
The DJ bible was what got the ball rolling for me. As a 14 year old chump the HS Bible made me see the light.
I've just read 'how to win friends and influence people' and I must say the principle are solid and work!
By far the most important thing for me was being real with where I was at. I had a lightbulb moment at 14 & have had a second one recently!
I've just read 'how to win friends and influence people' and I must say the principle are solid and work!
By far the most important thing for me was being real with where I was at. I had a lightbulb moment at 14 & have had a second one recently!
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Peaceful warrior awesome