"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What book helped change you life and break out if the so-called matrix

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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No specific books to me. 7 Habits of Highly Effective People has the basic essentials I guess. Then the Bible. I've read a lot more totally worthless self-help/inspirational books than I have good ones.

I actually owe a ton to this website, rather than a book.
 

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Rational male
No excuses
Wild at heart
No more mr nice guy

READ AND WATCH CASINO
Its fcking epic dude, perfect example of an
Evil slu.t
 

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Rational male, yep, that's the one (game wise)
If you are into getting wiser, read some schopenhauer and nietzsche. If you want to go the spiritual route I recommend Theravada Buddhism. Christianity is cool if you find a traditional church (this will not happen tho)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Saw casino like heat and the departed as well and have to throw in cruel intentions what an awesome flick
 

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Mostly just this website because you can still feel nuance and emotion through some texts here, like people post how they talk so I think just reading here is better than most books really. This sounds typical, but the Book of Pook was pretty good. Funny thing is, I didn't even read all of it haha. I prolly should but eh.
 

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Dale Carnegie: How to win friends and influence people
Dan Millman: The Peaceful Warrior (I recommend the movie on the book)
Sun Tzu: Art of War
Miyamoto Musashi: Book of 5 rings
Double your dating
 

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I d say rational male and practical female psychology for the practical man for understanding woman. Leil Lowndes staff is very good on social skills. But her Breathless Style and grating voice are pretty painful on audiobook
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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And a couple of fiction books:

The shallow man. Nice book on the dangers of the pua lifestyle.

Elmer Gantry. 1930s book about a traveling Bible salesman. Well written funny and full of interesting tricks for separating the ladies of the day from their bloomers
 

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I'd agree that everything you need is on this website. However finding and collating it is quite the job. It's easier to buy a few books for the foundation and then develop your own personal Style from experience and the material here that resonates for your stage of life and game.
 

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READ AND WATCH CASINO
Its fcking epic dude, perfect example of an
Evil slu.t
Saw the movie, haven't read it. The Robert De Niro character is a perfect example of an otherwise "alpha" type guy who gets emotionally involved with the wrong woman. Dude doesn't know how to screen. :)
 

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For me, it was mostly this website. I've read a bunch of books that helped me change my life, but this site was what got it all started. It's high importance and focus on self-improvement drove me to make the changes I needed to make in my life. I learned a lot of very useful things over the years while doing it, and that's what I enjoy sharing with others here.
 

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Saw the movie, haven't read it. The Robert De Niro character is a perfect example of an otherwise "alpha" type guy who gets emotionally involved with the wrong woman. Dude doesn't know how to screen. :)
Book is an excellent read. Alot different from the movie.
PURE REALITY and actually happened.
The casino boss(Lefty) is probably one of the most cringiest beta chodes of them all..

Rich gangster gets the stunner because of his money.
Of course shes a vegas hustler..single mommy,(babys dad is an LA pimp and scum bag)
Knocks her up twice to "lock her down" and marrys her giving her half of everything..
obsessive, neediness to the point of killing.
Fights were settled with +100k+ jewlerly
leaves with millions of dollars blowing it on drugs and biker partys
He takes her back over and over despite all of her unforgivable ****
She bangs the bosses best friend who is a rampant killer.
yada yada he almost gets blown up, she dies later

recommend everyone to read it <3
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The DJ bible was what got the ball rolling for me. As a 14 year old chump the HS Bible made me see the light.

I've just read 'how to win friends and influence people' and I must say the principle are solid and work!

By far the most important thing for me was being real with where I was at. I had a lightbulb moment at 14 & have had a second one recently!
 
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