"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What are your views on sending hot txts to ur gf?

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My Name is Nobody said:
yes, that joke was the bomb diggity I just used it too soon.. timing is everything.. I'm still going to use that baby.

I have been shying away from chatting and texts. I haven't even chatted online with my plate and keeping the texts to a minimum only replying never sending and it's working very well.
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That's the thing, chatting as in having entire conversations via text is a bad thing as it is typically misused and is not nearly as effective as using your actual voice. By the way, the first time you used that joke you used it at the right time and it worked well didn't it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
That's the thing, chatting as in having entire conversations via text is a bad thing as it is typically misused and is not nearly as effective as using your actual voice. By the way, the first time you used that joke you used it at the right time and it worked well didn't it?
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It's all good my man it worked like a charm I'm going to use it on the girl I'm meeting tonight but only if the date goes well and I don't see any reason it will go bad. I just hate coffee dates I prefer a beer date so I can get relaxed but she chose coffee so coffee it is.

I am ready and my confidence is going up. I'll send it to her tomorrow or the next day. And I used it on my current plate too and we know how that one turned out. :rockon:
 
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