"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What are your views on sending hot txts to ur gf?

Francisco d'Anconia

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yes, that joke was the bomb diggity I just used it too soon.. timing is everything.. I'm still going to use that baby.

I have been shying away from chatting and texts. I haven't even chatted online with my plate and keeping the texts to a minimum only replying never sending and it's working very well.
That's the thing, chatting as in having entire conversations via text is a bad thing as it is typically misused and is not nearly as effective as using your actual voice. By the way, the first time you used that joke you used it at the right time and it worked well didn't it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
That's the thing, chatting as in having entire conversations via text is a bad thing as it is typically misused and is not nearly as effective as using your actual voice. By the way, the first time you used that joke you used it at the right time and it worked well didn't it?
It's all good my man it worked like a charm I'm going to use it on the girl I'm meeting tonight but only if the date goes well and I don't see any reason it will go bad. I just hate coffee dates I prefer a beer date so I can get relaxed but she chose coffee so coffee it is.

I am ready and my confidence is going up. I'll send it to her tomorrow or the next day. And I used it on my current plate too and we know how that one turned out. :rockon:
 
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