"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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What are your views on sending hot txts to ur gf?

inzone50

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I feel like the usual hey how is your day going.. bla bla is boring. My girls like to send me that crap daily...

I tend to lead it to more sexual things like cyber txting if you will... :D

example:

I want to walk in ur office right now. Grab ur hand pull u out of ur chair. I would lean you over ur desk as you pull ur skirt up over ur ass. rubbing my hard **** on ur ass. Pull ur thong down to ur knees...etc

what are you views on stuff like that? IMO it build interest and sexual tension...

obviously mix it up a lil and not always send those kinds of txts...
 

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I know some of you are against texting... but its rude to just not reply to my gf when she send me text like hey how is your day going and hope you have a good day...
 

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Works i wouldnt due it offten though i send txt Like thats is i want a divorce.... i get the Mansion in maui but you can have the new BMW
 

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frisco said:
Works i wouldnt due it offten though i send txt Like thats is i want a divorce.... i get the Mansion in maui but you can have the new BMW
what?
 

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Excuse me... Text like the ones you send she eventually will just find as perverted and dumb and sum what needy.. I also understand that its not polite to ignore a GF s dumb Boring text... So a text that i have used to fire her up and get her emotionally involved is to use role playing... (IE) Thats it i want a divorce... You can keep the new Bentley, But i get the house in Maui ha...

Over the top texts like these keeps things fresh funny and is something different from ordinary daily life. Just an example of one way of role playing much the same as your texxxts
 

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frisco said:
Excuse me... Text like the ones you send she eventually will just find as perverted and dumb and sum what needy.. I also understand that its not polite to ignore a GF s dumb Boring text... So a text that i have used to fire her up and get her emotionally involved is to use role playing... (IE) Thats it i want a divorce... You can keep the new Bentley, But i get the house in Maui ha...

Over the top texts like these keeps things fresh funny and is something different from ordinary daily life. Just an example of one way of role playing much the same as your texxxts
you have to give a better example.
 

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maybe this: "how's our child at home? I'm at work now and I can't wait to get home and see my family."
 

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She usually texts something along the lines of "Hows work" or "Hows your day" in response i usually text something over the top.

(IE) just bought two tickets to Amsterdam... lets go to The Cannibus cup, i hear we can be judges ha

Anything thats over the top works great, Girls will usually pickup on the vibe and run with it also.. (IE) No way im so packing right now
 

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Nothing wrong with sending hot text messages to your girl.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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I think the golden rule is to reply to texts just not send them.
 

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I used to take random pictures of my junk and send it to my girl.
She says it turned her on.
 

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im fine with texting...but i NEVER text a HB first...only guy friends if we dont feel like talking on the phone or are in a situation we can't (meeting, etc)
 
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jdawgmcb said:
im fine with texting...but i NEVER text a HB first...only guy friends if we dont feel like talking on the phone or are in a situation we can't (meeting, etc)

Yeah that's the rule I am incorporating into my own life.. it's cool to reply but never text first it doesn't seem right. And all the times I text first it never ended well but when SHE texts first and I wait awhile to reply it usually ends with her asking to get together.
 

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here is an example of a seductive text sent in the middle of the day, while she was at work:

"my hand across your bare back, you feel my breath in your ear… and I pull your body against mine… you feel my heat as our skin touches like silk…"
she replied with something like "It's getting hot in here", so just kept this description going for a few more texts

Here's an example of ignoring her logical question and responding in an emotional/charming/seductive way. It starts with a general ping, just to get the ball rolling:

M: Hey sexy. How is my adorable little brat?
HB: Fine! Did you have a good day at work? kiss
M: Mmmm… Thinking about your delicious kisses...
HB: Your way to good to be true :)

the key is to totally ignore her question, and just respond with something much better. I am pretty sure she is glad she got the text that she did, rather than the answer to her question.

cheers
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bible_Belt said:
I am too busy fvcking her to text message, except when I am with another girl, then I am just too busy fvcking.
i'm not talking about a **** buddy. i'm talking about LTR gf.
 

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cedd said:
here is an example of a seductive text sent in the middle of the day, while she was at work:



she replied with something like "It's getting hot in here", so just kept this description going for a few more texts

Here's an example of ignoring her logical question and responding in an emotional/charming/seductive way. It starts with a general ping, just to get the ball rolling:

M: Hey sexy. How is my adorable little brat?
HB: Fine! Did you have a good day at work? kiss
M: Mmmm… Thinking about your delicious kisses...
HB: Your way to good to be true :)

the key is to totally ignore her question, and just respond with something much better. I am pretty sure she is glad she got the text that she did, rather than the answer to her question.

cheers
I agree with that...
 

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Yeah that's the rule I am incorporating into my own life.. it's cool to reply but never text first it doesn't seem right. And all the times I text first it never ended well but when SHE texts first and I wait awhile to reply it usually ends with her asking to get together.
Oh really? I remember a certain aspiring DJ who sent certain joke that a particular women who responded quickly and favorably to it. :whistle:
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Oh really? I remember a certain aspiring DJ who sent certain joke that a particular women who responded quickly and favorably to it. :whistle:

yes, that joke was the bomb diggity I just used it too soon.. timing is everything.. I'm still going to use that baby.

I have been shying away from chatting and texts. I haven't even chatted online with my plate and keeping the texts to a minimum only replying never sending and it's working very well.
 

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