"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What are your views on sending hot txts to ur gf?

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Francisco d'Anconia

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My Name is Nobody said:
yes, that joke was the bomb diggity I just used it too soon.. timing is everything.. I'm still going to use that baby.

I have been shying away from chatting and texts. I haven't even chatted online with my plate and keeping the texts to a minimum only replying never sending and it's working very well.
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That's the thing, chatting as in having entire conversations via text is a bad thing as it is typically misused and is not nearly as effective as using your actual voice. By the way, the first time you used that joke you used it at the right time and it worked well didn't it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
That's the thing, chatting as in having entire conversations via text is a bad thing as it is typically misused and is not nearly as effective as using your actual voice. By the way, the first time you used that joke you used it at the right time and it worked well didn't it?
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It's all good my man it worked like a charm I'm going to use it on the girl I'm meeting tonight but only if the date goes well and I don't see any reason it will go bad. I just hate coffee dates I prefer a beer date so I can get relaxed but she chose coffee so coffee it is.

I am ready and my confidence is going up. I'll send it to her tomorrow or the next day. And I used it on my current plate too and we know how that one turned out. :rockon:
 
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