"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What Are Your Thoughts - Womans Famous Last Words?

englishcrap

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Whats thing about women and 7.5 year relationships.

I met three girls and each of them has said to me "You know I was in a 7.5 year relationship with this guy and then he asked me to marry him and I realized that I didnt want to spend the rest of my life with him"

So tellme how many women have used this "7.5 year relationship line ?...get the impression its somthing to show they were once secure in a relationship.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Ever hear of a the "seven year itch?"
 

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ah well i guess the "seven year itch" can be cured by 7 days.... :p
who cares about their bullcrap on 7.5 years relationship.....all i say is....just do what u can at the moment :p
 

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When you are a pre-teen 2 weeks means you have LTR potential.
When you are a teen 6 months means you have LTR potential.
When you are (i usually argue 23 others argue as old as 25) a college diva type 2 years means you have LTR potential.
Late 20's it's 3-5 years.
In the 30s it's either divorced or around 10 years.
I'm guessing they are way too close to 29 for their liking. As they calculate the new birthdate they would need to make the age they claim believable, they look for a relationship length that sends the LTR material message without you realizing they would have had to have dated the same guy since they were 12 to make it true.:cool:

Just a guess.
 
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You have it wrong - it is the man who gets the "seven year itch" and tires of his wife/gf after seven years of marriage/relationship and moves on to another woman!! These masculine hors have it wrong - men lose interest in women before women lost interest in men!! They are trying to be like men but do not have the physical qualities and emotional fortitude, as they age , to seek better prospects!!!! Women decline in beauty with years and after seceral years men seek a fresher flower!!!

See the movie "The seven year itch" showing the consumate American hor Marilyn Monroe.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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