"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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englishcrap

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Whats thing about women and 7.5 year relationships.

I met three girls and each of them has said to me "You know I was in a 7.5 year relationship with this guy and then he asked me to marry him and I realized that I didnt want to spend the rest of my life with him"

So tellme how many women have used this "7.5 year relationship line ?...get the impression its somthing to show they were once secure in a relationship.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Ever hear of a the "seven year itch?"
 

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ah well i guess the "seven year itch" can be cured by 7 days.... :p
who cares about their bullcrap on 7.5 years relationship.....all i say is....just do what u can at the moment :p
 

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When you are a pre-teen 2 weeks means you have LTR potential.
When you are a teen 6 months means you have LTR potential.
When you are (i usually argue 23 others argue as old as 25) a college diva type 2 years means you have LTR potential.
Late 20's it's 3-5 years.
In the 30s it's either divorced or around 10 years.
I'm guessing they are way too close to 29 for their liking. As they calculate the new birthdate they would need to make the age they claim believable, they look for a relationship length that sends the LTR material message without you realizing they would have had to have dated the same guy since they were 12 to make it true.:cool:

Just a guess.
 
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You have it wrong - it is the man who gets the "seven year itch" and tires of his wife/gf after seven years of marriage/relationship and moves on to another woman!! These masculine hors have it wrong - men lose interest in women before women lost interest in men!! They are trying to be like men but do not have the physical qualities and emotional fortitude, as they age , to seek better prospects!!!! Women decline in beauty with years and after seceral years men seek a fresher flower!!!

See the movie "The seven year itch" showing the consumate American hor Marilyn Monroe.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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