"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What Are Your Thoughts - Womans Famous Last Words?

englishcrap

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Whats thing about women and 7.5 year relationships.

I met three girls and each of them has said to me "You know I was in a 7.5 year relationship with this guy and then he asked me to marry him and I realized that I didnt want to spend the rest of my life with him"

So tellme how many women have used this "7.5 year relationship line ?...get the impression its somthing to show they were once secure in a relationship.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Ever hear of a the "seven year itch?"
 

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ah well i guess the "seven year itch" can be cured by 7 days.... :p
who cares about their bullcrap on 7.5 years relationship.....all i say is....just do what u can at the moment :p
 

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When you are a pre-teen 2 weeks means you have LTR potential.
When you are a teen 6 months means you have LTR potential.
When you are (i usually argue 23 others argue as old as 25) a college diva type 2 years means you have LTR potential.
Late 20's it's 3-5 years.
In the 30s it's either divorced or around 10 years.
I'm guessing they are way too close to 29 for their liking. As they calculate the new birthdate they would need to make the age they claim believable, they look for a relationship length that sends the LTR material message without you realizing they would have had to have dated the same guy since they were 12 to make it true.:cool:

Just a guess.
 
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You have it wrong - it is the man who gets the "seven year itch" and tires of his wife/gf after seven years of marriage/relationship and moves on to another woman!! These masculine hors have it wrong - men lose interest in women before women lost interest in men!! They are trying to be like men but do not have the physical qualities and emotional fortitude, as they age , to seek better prospects!!!! Women decline in beauty with years and after seceral years men seek a fresher flower!!!

See the movie "The seven year itch" showing the consumate American hor Marilyn Monroe.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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