"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What are your Stats / Goals ?

Alex_L

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Post up your body stats and what you think your goal is at the moment ..


My Current Stats
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Height - 5' 9"
Weight - 167 lbs / 76kg
Bodyfat - ?? 12-15%
Biceps - 15"
Chest - 41"
Waist - 32"

My Goal Stats
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Weight - 200 lbs / 91kg
Bodyfat - 8%
Biceps - 18"
Chest - 50"
Waist 32"

.... Who know's when i'll reach that , If I ever do :) lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Duke Togo

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height: 5'10 1/2"
weight: 170lbs
bodyfat: 10% calipers
biceps: 15 3/4" flexed cold
chest: 41"
waist: 32"

goals:
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weight: 190lbs
bodyfat: maintain at 9%
biceps: 17"
chest: 44"
waist: 32"


i dont think surpassing 190lbs on a 5'10 or smaller frame will look aesthetically pleasing even at low body fat. i think its also best to target a body fat level which is healthy/easier to maintain which also shows adequate definition then a lower body fat which is harder to maintain and unhealthier.
 

Lifeforce

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Height: 5'10"
Weight 155 lbs 70.5 kg
Body Fat: around 8-9 %
Upper arms: 33.1 cm (13 1/4")
Lower arms: 29.2 cm (11 3/4")
Chest: 96.5 cm (38 1/2")
waist: 75 cm (30")
Thighs: 55.6 cm (22 1/4"
Calves: 38.5 cm (15.4")

Goal:

Weight: 75 and then 85 kg 165 lbs 187 lbs
BF: around 7%
Body in symmetry
 

true|hockey

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Height: 5'10"
Weight 180 lbs ( can me more can be less due to water intake and loss)

Goal:

Weight: Maybe a bit over 200 lbs.

I want to add more power and speed to my game, but there is a vertain point where a guy my height will be hindered by extra mass. At this point, I will continue to lift to maintain size but gain strength.

since I am such a slow gainer, I have not given this much thought.
 

DJBen

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Height: 5'8.5"
Weight: 175 [was more, been ill/injured for two months :(]

Goal:

Weight: 195+ / 8%BF

I really dont care what weight I am. It's the feeling I get from the gym, and the ever increasing, skin stretching, muscle bulging pump that gets better with the increased amounts of muscle on me. I'm only 18, it wouldnt suprise me if I end up in the 210's.

I dont know about anyone else, but I dont think I'll ever be happy with how I look. I'll always want a bigger chest and bigger lats. When they look huge, I need bigger guns, and then need huge traps and hams to go with it. It's a never ending cycle, and I wouldnt want it any other way.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Heizen

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Weight: 165 lbs
BF: 8%

Goal

Weight 170
BF:6%

Its a small goal, but I cant go over 170 lbs because I polevault and thats the biggest pole they have, 170 lbs.

Once I hit 170 I will start doing higher reps with the weight I have reached on my lifts :)
 

D'light

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Height: 6'1'' 1/2
Weight: 172 Pounds
Body: Pretty low, abs show real well, but only when i flex

Goal:
I like my height
Weight: 185-190
Body Fat: Same as now
 

-.-

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Started

Weight: 118 lbs
Height: 5'7
B/f% = 8%

Now

Weight: 162 lbs
Height 5'7
B/f% = less than 10%

Goal

Weight: 165 lbs
Height: 5'7
B/f% = 8%

So basically, my goal is to gain 3 more pounds and lose 2% b/f. This should be easy and will take like a month. Lol. I'm almost there. :)
 

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Originally posted by -.-
Started

Weight: 118 lbs
Height: 5'7
B/f% = 8%

Now

Weight: 162 lbs
Height 5'7
B/f% = less than 10%

thats' really good progress :) ..how long did it take you?
 

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started when i was 16, and was under 100lbs

I'm 150lbs, 6-8 b/f 5'11 (grew alot in height)
arms 14"

goal 168lbs, 6-8 b/f 6ft
arms over 15"
improvement on legs, shoulders, and forearms.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alex_L

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Originally posted by Alex_L


My Current Stats
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Weight - 167 lbs / 76kg



Wow :D found out today my scales didn't work and i'm infact 80kg / 176lbs ...

:cool:
 

AFK Protector

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My Current Stats
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Age - 16
Height - 5' 10"
Weight - 136 lbs
Bodyfat - 13.36%
Biceps - 13"
Chest - 38"
Waist - 30"

Hey pros, I'm a noob at this still and I've basically cut a lot (used to be 180 lbs, 5'8" :( )

Anyways, can someone give me some realistic goals? Thanks. I'm looking for that lean strong look, as opposed to the bodybuilder look with like 30" biceps.
 

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I'm 22, 6-3, 190 lbs. Body Fat is really low, between 6-8%. How do you do the measurements? Do you flex?
 

-.-

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Originally posted by Alex_L
thats' really good progress :) ..how long did it take you?
it's been 18 months. i've been studying bodybuilding since august 2003.. still studying and learning bodybuilding..
 

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Anyways, can someone give me some realistic goals? Thanks. I'm looking for that lean strong look, as opposed to the bodybuilder look with like 30" biceps. [/B]

;) I don't think body builders do have 30" arms lol.. maybe 20+ but not that big...

I dunno all I can suggest is workout your arms at least once a week.

Do curls of some sort for your biceps.

and bench press & dips for your Triceps.

keep sets of reps of 6 - 8 usually work best

Eat plenty of protein and carbs
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by One on One
How do you do the measurements? Do you flex?

When you measure your biceps you measure them flexed ..but cold (i.e not straight away a workout when they are pumped)
 
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