"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What are your SARGING shoes?

falconslax89

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TheManOfSteel said:
Yep so if I go to the mall looking at shoes to buy, and I get some HB's phone number and eventually bang her brains out, I'm obviously a homosexual because I was originally going to the mall to look for shoes... ;)
I was making fun of someone else. It's not gay to look for shoes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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falconslax89 said:
I was making fun of someone else. It's not gay to look for shoes.
Yes I know, hence the sarcastic smiley face signifying me mocking the first guy's comment.
 

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Vice said:
Thanks for that! The wing-tip oxford looks awesome and looks like a great peacock item that would get girls looking. I can't believe you can't wear those with jeans or khakis though.

What dress shoes do you guys recommend that I can wear both to work and with jeans? An all day dress shoe.

I already wear my black dress shoes (cheap one) everyday but after this thread i'm upgrading to something nice.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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