Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What are your requirements to marry her?

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Assuming that you want to marry a girl either soon or in the future, what are your requirements or "must have" in order to finally go for it, if any?

She's rich?
She's super beautiful?
Both?
Love :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Must cook food.
Must clean house.
Must be trustworthy and loyal (not a slut who bangs the mailman or trash guy when you are not at home or gives a oral to her boss at work).


My additional requirement:
Must have a college (bachelor's) degree.
 

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Assuming that you want to marry a girl either soon or in the future, what are your requirements or "must have" in order to finally go for it, if any?

She's rich?
She's super beautiful?
Both?
Love :D
Top form SMV 18-23, thin, young, hawtttt as ****kkkk 15/10.

No ambiguity or anything cucky, weird, no deceit or lying followed by complete reform of divorce law, child custody, and the abolishment of feminism.

Even then, no marriage affiliated by the state.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Okay I know this is an analogy question but for me the reality I would not get married with how the laws are so unfair to men. You're pretty much a slave after you sign the contract. The reasons you cited would be good for a Disney movie but this is reality. You have a better chance of winning the lottery meaning money than having a successful marriage. Now for me never married and no kids and my parents have been married for almost 50 years. So you would think I would side with marriage but I'm not. I've seen my dad been emasculated at some points and not even notice and the haze married men are in.
 

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- Has to be a great connection - physically, spiritually, emotionally.
- Has goals and dreams of her own.
- Takes care of herself - physically, mentally, spiritually.
- Doesn’t NEED me, but actively chooses me.
- Great sense of humour
- Communicates well
- Is open
- Loyal
- Trustworthy
- Believes in cultivating things with meaning
- Educates herself in whichever way and likes to try new things
- Values space but is deeply intimate
- Doesn’t try to control the relationship or how I interact with the world.
- Supports me in my life
- Believes in balance
 
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I want:

1. A Friend
2. A team player
3. Someone who communicates (and i can communicate too)
4. Someone who shares my dreams, goal, passions
5. A complimentary partner (someone who can do stuff i cant: like cook.. Or will be strong where i am weak and vice versa) to grow together

These 5 éléments are key, added she is physically attractive and keep in shape and has a Brain with a sense of humour
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Assuming that you want to marry a girl either soon or in the future, what are your requirements or "must have" in order to finally go for it, if any?

She's rich?
She's super beautiful?
Both?
Love :D
She's rich
She's beautiful
She's demure
She f*cks like a champ all the time, even when she doesn't want to
She never, ever nags
She's loyal to a fault
She has no orbiters
She lets the man lead

All of these are mission critical for marriage to succeed. If you are missing any of these, abort and eject.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A prenup tighter than a granite block.
 

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Likes traditional gender roles and doesn't find anything toxic about me being a man and her being a woman.
 

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It seem many men here just asking for what always men was asking for , but just hide it lately because of feminism
 

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Not getting married so no list. I live in a world of absolutes. I don't ever think about what if was like this because I know those women are few and far between.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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