"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What are your goals?

Why are you a Don Juan?

  • To get a girlfriend

    Votes: 2 9.1%
  • To find the “one”

    Votes: 4 18.2%
  • To succeed in all area’s of life, including women

    Votes: 13 59.1%
  • Get a ƒuck buddy

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Have several ƒuck buddies

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Have sex with so many girls, you loose count

    Votes: 3 13.6%
  • Other, please explain

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
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Maxtro

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I don't think this has been done before, if it has it's too late now ;)

Why are you trying to be a better Don Juan, what are your goals with life and women?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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il_duce

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When I first came to this site, my primary goal was just to get more women.

But now my primary goal is just to improve myself in all areas of life.
 

Maxtro

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As for me, its my goal to have lots of sex with lots of women. I am aware that it is not the DJ way but I feel that I was cheated out of sex and I need to catch up.
 

SDBmania

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To succseed in all areas of life, but...

I would very much like to have a girlfriend, but I'm in no rush.
 

Maxtro

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Yeah SDBmania thats what I ment. Getting a girl or girls and using the skills of confedince and self worth and everything else being a DJ does to a person. Helping to get a job what ever.

And thats what the majorityy of people here seem to want. I'm surprised that there are more guys looking for the on than there are who want to have lots of sex.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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comic_relief

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My original reason

My original reason was to get a oneitis but now I gave up on her because alot of other chicks out there that are alot hotter.

My reason now is to improve all areas of my life including women.
 

Dirtheart

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I'm not interested in being a player. I am on the verge of fulfilling my long term ambition and reaching personal and financial success in life, so what I really want is a long term partner to settle down and share life and experiences with. But I want to be somebody she respects and feels lucky to be with.

I thought that I had found her, but then I lost her and came to this site to seek help to win her back into my life.

However, this site has given me optimism and has educated me on how to improve not only my chances, but my relationship techniques when I do meet the woman I'll settle down with.
 

SDBmania

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Originally posted by Maxtro
Yeah SDBmania thats what I ment. Getting a girl or girls and using the skills of confedince and self worth and everything else being a DJ does to a person. Helping to get a job what ever.

And thats what the majorityy of people here seem to want. I'm surprised that there are more guys looking for the on than there are who want to have lots of sex.
Oh, I see. I wasn't replying to what you said though.
 
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