"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What are your Goals?

steve_erkle

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Well guys, I just wrote out some goals for myself for the next year. I'm focusing on bodybuilding, guitar, and improving my social skills. Just wondering what everybody else's goals are.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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guywhoneedshelp

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I don't think improving social skills is really a goal of mine. However, I do strive to read more books, watch more movies, stay up to date with TV shows, so you have something to talk about when you are making small talk. I try to see as many movies as possible, because I hate being the one guy at the table who never heard of that movie everyone is talking about.

My goals are mainly financial. Earn more, save more, invest more.
 

Lexington

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My goals:
- To improve my confidence and game with the ladies:
Anxiety/confidence are my main issues, but I've made some serious progress in these areas. I need to improve my conversation and flirting skills.

-To build a significantly greater amount of muscle mass:
I go to the gym 4x a week and I already see some differences in about a month and half

-To be a more organized, disciplined, focused student:
This has been the most difficult area to work on. This is particularly hard for me because I have ADHD. Unfortunately, the progress has been small and hard to come in this area, but I'm going to keep working at it!

-To take my guitar playing to the next level:
I started when I was 14 (and I turned 24 a few days ago). Early on, my goal was to be able to play Metallica's best stuff (I used to be a huge fan of theirs). I can play most of it including the solos. But after I reached that goal, my guitar playing has really plateaued. My aim now is to take on some Satriani, which should be quite a bit more challenging.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dstructor

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- Get some cool belts in Capoeira
- Have energizing fun, with and without people, effortlessly
- Get in touch with who i am, my desires and choose who i want to be

You can say these are my life's goals, the capoeira not so much lol but i do love this game
 
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