"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What are your goals for this summer?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Dee-Zy
Master Don Juan
Curl 50 lbs
be able to do more than 15 wide grip pull ups 3x
db shoulders press my weight
get that 6 pack, I got a ****ing beer belly now damn it.
Touch the rim on a 10'
and improve overall cardio.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Second, drop about .2 seconds off my 40 (It's about 4.6/4.5 right now)
Get my squat back into the respectable range since I haven't lifted for 3 months(It used to be 340x3, I was making about 10lbs increases each week, I weigh 150)
Finally, get my knees to stop aching, when I was lifting, they felt great, now, Not so much
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
CaliforniaKing
Don Juan
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- May 29, 2003
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Chillisauce
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 12, 2005
- Messages
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- Age
- 39
- put on around 15 pounds over the next 4 months
- 2 months cutting back down to 7-9% bodyfat and refresh my MA skills.
- Get a Distinction average for University
- Get a natural tan (you can do that in Australia's winter haha)
- Form an export plan for my product with minimal cost, but no skimping on the quality.
PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
My goals
1. Gain another 10-20 pounds of muscle and hopefully reach my goal weight of 185 pounds. Right now I'm around 175.
2. Reduce body fat and get a more visible six pack.
3. Continue kegal exercises so I can hit the ceiling everytime.
4. Start running around 2km to stay in shape and increase stamina.
5. Get my hair dyed and even out the tan by going swimming.
6. Lasty work out my legs so I can dunk, working out ur legs really HELPS in running and to get bigger muscles.