"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What are your favorite posts here?
- Thread starter WhtRbt
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Vice
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1123155
Unfortunately some IDIOT decided to ban him and now we are deprived of his razor sharp wit and insights meanwhile all the garbage trolls are still running loose such as iqqi and the NLG crew.
Here's link to tittie's:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/member.php?u=12172
Oh, I almost forgot. Jon024's field report journal. I think this is the best thread on the whole board!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134914
Absolutely inspiring, and entertaining as hell!!
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/The Book of Pook.pdf
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=83349
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=20965
For these two links, click on "Find all thread started by...."
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/member.php?u=19268
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/member.php?u=33103
And also follow KontrollerX's posts too.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ready123
Master Don Juan
Snowplowman - probably the only time I actually learn something new on this board is when I read his FR's
DBot - when everything clicks, being a pimp really is this simple
Interceptor and Johnny Soporno - these older dudes are totally at peace with the women around them and have a thorough understanding and acceptance of how women are. as opposed to seeing them as a threat that needs to be conquered, which is what I see a lot of here. AKA these guys have transcended the game
off this board, I love the new articles on rsdnation. these I actually learn something from. IE Ryan had an article on what to do if the girl approaches you first, something I've fvcked up countless times