"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What are your favorite posts here?
- Thread starter WhtRbt
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1123155
Unfortunately some IDIOT decided to ban him and now we are deprived of his razor sharp wit and insights meanwhile all the garbage trolls are still running loose such as iqqi and the NLG crew.
Here's link to tittie's:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/member.php?u=12172
Oh, I almost forgot. Jon024's field report journal. I think this is the best thread on the whole board!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134914
Absolutely inspiring, and entertaining as hell!!
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/The Book of Pook.pdf
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=83349
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=20965
For these two links, click on "Find all thread started by...."
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/member.php?u=19268
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/member.php?u=33103
And also follow KontrollerX's posts too.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
ready123
Master Don Juan
Snowplowman - probably the only time I actually learn something new on this board is when I read his FR's
DBot - when everything clicks, being a pimp really is this simple
Interceptor and Johnny Soporno - these older dudes are totally at peace with the women around them and have a thorough understanding and acceptance of how women are. as opposed to seeing them as a threat that needs to be conquered, which is what I see a lot of here. AKA these guys have transcended the game
off this board, I love the new articles on rsdnation. these I actually learn something from. IE Ryan had an article on what to do if the girl approaches you first, something I've fvcked up countless times