"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What are your favorite posts here?
- Thread starter WhtRbt
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1123155
Unfortunately some IDIOT decided to ban him and now we are deprived of his razor sharp wit and insights meanwhile all the garbage trolls are still running loose such as iqqi and the NLG crew.
Here's link to tittie's:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/member.php?u=12172
Oh, I almost forgot. Jon024's field report journal. I think this is the best thread on the whole board!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134914
Absolutely inspiring, and entertaining as hell!!
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/The Book of Pook.pdf
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=83349
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=20965
For these two links, click on "Find all thread started by...."
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/member.php?u=19268
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/member.php?u=33103
And also follow KontrollerX's posts too.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ready123
Master Don Juan
Snowplowman - probably the only time I actually learn something new on this board is when I read his FR's
DBot - when everything clicks, being a pimp really is this simple
Interceptor and Johnny Soporno - these older dudes are totally at peace with the women around them and have a thorough understanding and acceptance of how women are. as opposed to seeing them as a threat that needs to be conquered, which is what I see a lot of here. AKA these guys have transcended the game
off this board, I love the new articles on rsdnation. these I actually learn something from. IE Ryan had an article on what to do if the girl approaches you first, something I've fvcked up countless times