"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

What are you? Nice guy, jerk, or other?

what category are you in?

  • Nice guy-positive effect on women

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Nice guy-negative effect on women

    Votes: 1 10.0%
  • Nice guy-mixed results

    Votes: 1 10.0%
  • Jerk-positive effect on women

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • jerk-negative effect on women

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • jerk-mixed results

    Votes: 1 10.0%
  • nice jerk-positive effect on women

    Votes: 3 30.0%
  • nice jerk-negative effect on women

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • nice jerk-mixed results

    Votes: 2 20.0%
  • I'm not sure

    Votes: 2 20.0%

  • Total voters
    10

8bit

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 11, 2006
Messages
10
Reaction score
0
We all have views of how to act around women. Many of us believe that the jerks get all the women. Some women don't like jerks however. Wusses are no fun either, so a balance of both may be the best. What category do you think you are in and how has it worked on women?
Personally the nice guy thing never got me anywhere, and when I tried to be a jerk, but that didn't work either. I get a better response when I'm a little of both. I'm interested in hearing other opinions.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Tomatoes

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 3, 2006
Messages
1,099
Reaction score
7
Age
41
Location
Nottingham
Im sometimes nice, im sometimes a jerk. Depends what mood im in and who im with. I would say that this works on women. Some like me to be abit of an ******* while others like me to be the caring nice guy. I try to stay in the middle so i dont think im an ass to the world but still get girls.
 

Juan_Man

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 3, 2001
Messages
1,103
Reaction score
28
Neither.
 

8bit

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 11, 2006
Messages
10
Reaction score
0
Hey Juan_Man, I would love to hear a masters point of view.
 
Top