"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What are you? Nice guy, jerk, or other?

what category are you in?

  • Nice guy-positive effect on women

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Nice guy-negative effect on women

    Votes: 1 10.0%

  • Nice guy-mixed results

    Votes: 1 10.0%

  • Jerk-positive effect on women

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • jerk-negative effect on women

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • jerk-mixed results

    Votes: 1 10.0%

  • nice jerk-positive effect on women

    Votes: 3 30.0%

  • nice jerk-negative effect on women

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • nice jerk-mixed results

    Votes: 2 20.0%

  • I'm not sure

    Votes: 2 20.0%
  • Total voters
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8bit

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We all have views of how to act around women. Many of us believe that the jerks get all the women. Some women don't like jerks however. Wusses are no fun either, so a balance of both may be the best. What category do you think you are in and how has it worked on women?
Personally the nice guy thing never got me anywhere, and when I tried to be a jerk, but that didn't work either. I get a better response when I'm a little of both. I'm interested in hearing other opinions.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Im sometimes nice, im sometimes a jerk. Depends what mood im in and who im with. I would say that this works on women. Some like me to be abit of an ******* while others like me to be the caring nice guy. I try to stay in the middle so i dont think im an ass to the world but still get girls.
 
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Juan_Man

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Neither.
 
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Hey Juan_Man, I would love to hear a masters point of view.
 
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